what comes first getting intimate physicalness like hugging kissing and holding eachother(not requiring sex) and being romantic or first telling eachother you love eachother. I think it is not exact but usually i think you have to kiss someone and makeout a couple of times and all before you can say you love them.
2007-12-02 20:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best friend was dating her ex for 2 years and told him that she loved him after knowing him a year and dating him for 3 months. But with her now fiance she told him she loved him after knowing him 2 months and dating him 2 weeks.
It depends on your emotional connection with that person, you may click instantly and not have to be physical to say I love you. Or you may have to be physical most of the time to click and say I love you. It all depends on the person your with and what you both want in the long run.
2007-12-02 20:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by ursgirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of flirting and hugging then later a little bit of kissing. Anything beyond kissing is for sex.. and if you do end up deciding to do that- wear condoms get birth control before you even have sex- just really make sure that you get to know the other person, their families and all thier little querks, and know that just because you have all these harmones screaming to you that you should do it, just make sure your not jumping the gun. theres a lot of people out there. dating is not about finding THE ONE when your young. Its about finding out who you are, and what kind of role you want to play in your relationships. its ok if it changes. and hey, if your dating someone dont ever feel bad to break up with them for whatever reason. Its your game you make the rules
2007-12-03 04:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat them as you would want to be treated, with respect.
Each person is different in their needs.
If you concern yourself more with their needs than your own you will be on the right track.
Here is a good way to know. With their permission Kiss with meaning, once. Then let them know that it will never happen again unless they take the lead because you will not impose on them but wanted them to know how you feel.
If they respond positive, It's on.
If they don't follow up, Well at least you got a kiss to remember them by.
2007-12-03 04:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no real timeline of when to kiss, when to say i love you etc.
I kissed my boyfriend before we were even dating..
Don't makeout a few times then drop the L bomb because it's what you're meant to do. Tell them you love them when you really think the time is perfect.
2007-12-03 04:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my fiance and I got very close to eachother physically and emotionally and we really took the time to get to know eachother before saying that we loved eachother.
2007-12-03 04:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First comes coffee and a lot of talk and getting to know one another. Love comes much much later and you don't tell someone you love them until you understand just what that means. . .to you and to them. Dont' say it lightly, someone may believe you and all you're looking for is a system to success. You sound very young. Just take your time and it will all come to you with experience.
2007-12-03 04:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by towanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I now, of 2 years, were physical and stuff first. He finally told me today, after 2 year he loves me. So you got to get to know each other, learn to trust each other, and grow together and then you can tell them you love them.
2007-12-03 04:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think romance should go first...& it takes time to figure out that u love this person, so, for me on the first place is emtional attachment with the partner, second-is confession of love, third-sex..u might consider me old-fashioned, but, sex without love is just a prostitution...
2007-12-03 04:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by miraclelight777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS NOT PURLEY PHYSICAL AND FOR YOU TO THANK SO MEANS YOUR NOT READY FOR LOVE LOVE IS AN EMOTIONAL BASED FEELING BASED ON THE REALESE OF ENDORPHINS AMD TRIGGERS THE HAPPY THOUGHTS AND CONSTANT THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON
Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.
2007-12-03 04:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by cocochanel09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yea it would be a good idea to make sure theres some chemistry there (as people call it) cos you wouldnt want to fall in love with someone if you wernt physicaly attracted to them as well as emotionaly
2007-12-03 04:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋