2 years married.. no children.. im still the same person ! i didnt lose or gained weight. sex once or twice a month. :( i want to enjoy sex and i also want to have kids from him. hes so lazy i dont know what to do
2007-12-02 21:43:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when i ask him to have sex he rejects me easily i feel so stupid when he does that
2007-12-02 21:51:45 · update #1
THAT IS ROUGH, SEX IS ONE THING THAT YOU CANT LET SLIDE IN A RELATIONSHIP..... HE MAY BE UNDER A LOT OF STRESS, TRY SOME NEW THINGS, USE YOUR IMAGINATION.... MEN GO THROUGH LOSS OF INTEREST JUST LIKE WOMEN, YOU JUST NEED TO REMIND HIM WHY HE LOVES SEX. IT ISN'T YOU, AND JUST REMEMBER THAT.
2007-12-02 22:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Billie Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you want to have kids with an obviously slack bloke and B, why you want to get intimate with a man who has lost some of his self respect.
2007-12-02 23:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a clear indication that he is just not that into you, and is not relationship material. Rather sickening really, as there are so many great guys who would love to have the chance to just get to know you, yet you're sticking yourself with such a sucky situation....sorry, but the stereotypical hairheaded chick when it comes to relationships....
grow up before having kids, please. Really, please consider the future kids before popping them out. Clearly you're not ready for anything grownup yet, so please hold off.
2007-12-02 21:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody can help u in this case,u have to encourage him to have sex with u.u can read books about how to get him in mood.the is lacking intrest for some reason ,u find out the reason first.
2007-12-02 21:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason it sounds like that kind of thing is normal when people have been married awhile. i don't know why, and i hope if i ever get married its not true, but that's what i've heard.
2007-12-02 21:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse him when he comes close to you for sex,
refuse him till he feel sex too much,
Make some good food specially good for (sex health) like fish, dates, etc.
And try to expose your self as a sexy woman. Try to use good choice of clothes, and makeup.
It will help try it!
My best wishes for you.........................
2007-12-02 21:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab his lazy *** and put him to work! go to victoria secret and buy something sexy put some romantic music and give him a little show! hehe
2007-12-02 21:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Amen to that!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try something different? and bring back the excitement that was?. Try role playing.
2007-12-02 21:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not normal, maybe you would both benefit from counseling
2007-12-02 22:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dod it fall off??
aha, just joking, talk to him!! only he knows why!
good luck!
2007-12-02 21:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋