Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

well my sister is going to her first highschool formal in march and needs to lose fifty pounds quickly so somebody might ask her this is really important to her please help

2007-12-06 16:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by DEVIL 1 in Singles & Dating

He is just soooooo wonderful. We admitted to eachother that we had fallen in love with eachother and I would like to get him a unique gift that he would love. He is 25 and likes all the typical guy stuff, but I would like to get him something that REALLY shows how much I appreciate who he is. Thanks.

2007-12-06 16:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 16:45:25 · 13 answers · asked by superman 1 in Singles & Dating

I have feelings for this guy but after speaking to friends and family, they all tell me he's not good for me. He lives with an x and doesn't let me come to his house, saids there's nothing going on but I know better. He doesn't return my phone call while at home but calls me when on his way to work. This whole thing sucks, any suggestions on how to be strong and not give in??

2007-12-06 16:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by Bandrea 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for 61/2 years, have joint custody w/ my ex of my 11 year old, w/ me holding the primary residence for my son, my ex owes over 20K in child support and medical support and an enforcement hearing is scheduled next month by the Attorney Generals office, but he is now taking me to court next week to request for my son goes to live with him. He has been pressuring my son to say that he wants to go live w/ him, but though my son loves him a lot he wants to live w/ me and see him as much as he can. His dad has been good to him, but has never been involved in his school or extra curricular activities, couldn't tell you his teacher, doctor, friends names etc.... Does he have a chance to take him if he can persuade my son to say that he wants to go? He has requested a social study, which I beleive will be in my favor, my only fear is that he can get my son to say that he wants to go with him. Please advise.

2007-12-06 16:42:54 · 10 answers · asked by ad 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 16:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by pato29 1 in Family

this guy who is very likable, polite, friendly, you name it, he just seems like a good guy. but i heard he stole a car, pulled a knife on people, left his ex with a 1000 dollar hotel tab by sneaking out at night when she was asleep, and tells girls his family owns a bank so he can appeal to their greed and use them. he cheats on tests, calls his ex a stupid fat sl ut and only used her for *** and never really cared about her. does this guy have a mental problem or just a chip on his soldier?

2007-12-06 16:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my ex we can not continue with our friends with benefits relationship because I deserve to be with someone who will not use me.He said he is not using me, and I think he really believes that hes not.I do have to see him often because we have a daughter together, he usually comes down on the weekends to visit.Why does he think hes not using me?Please help me figure this one out.We were together for 6 years, but he has anger issues so I had to leave him (no he did not abuse me or my daughter in any way). How do I make him understand that he is really just using me, maybe hes just comfortable with being with me intimately, but I need to move on, he said he could never love anyone ever again.What do you think about all this?

2007-12-06 16:39:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl I posted about earlier. I finally talked to her but she don't talk back to me. I would leave it alone but she giggles and smiles when I say something to her. I catch her glancing at me from time to time. Why does she only smile and not talk? She doesn't seem shy because I've heard her speak to people confidently before. Am I misinterpreting her or something and she really doesn't like me at all? If she does, what can I say to get her to open up to me? Ladies, opinions please.

Btw, I'm a college student.

2007-12-06 16:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by ManlyFool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 16:35:45 · 28 answers · asked by Dark Dickinsonian 4 in Singles & Dating

Decision making requires weighing pros and cons and then going with what in your opinion is the right thing regardless how the choice may affect others.

2007-12-06 16:35:24 · 8 answers · asked by snookums 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband went for a haircut today, the song "crank" was playing on the radio and the hairdresser who happens to be a lady started discussing with my husband how she wondered what "superman that ho" meant, so she went online and checked it out and told him what it means .To whoever doesn't know what that means (when you ejaculate on a girls back then put a blanket on her so when she stands up the blanket sticks therefore making her look like she has a cape: coppied from urbandictionar.com) My husband came and told me that and I was furious, I thought it was EXTREMELY inappropriate that a girl discusses this topic with a customer, and I started accusing my husband that he gave her the chance to say such a thing. Because if it were me, I won't let another man discuss such a topic with me. Do you think I'm making such a deal out of nothing????

2007-12-06 16:30:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I like this girl ok, and I want her to be my GF I've been talking to people and they say that a good move would be to get the parents to know me, and itro duce myself and all that. I just need a good excuse to meet them and make a good impresion. PLZ HELP!!!!!!!

2007-12-06 16:29:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

#1. The Jock who never notices you

#2. The guy with thick glasses in love with 'star treck'

#3. Overwieght but sweet

#4. The guy who says he loves you but u find him unattractive

#5. The "coolest" guy with acne

#6. The guy who never knows what to say when he sees you

SO who would u go for????

2007-12-06 16:27:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do so much for my family, my wife, my kid but my wife keeps nagging and fault finding for nothing. she always compares with people and find other husbands as great.
offlate, this has become a habit and when i discussed this with my close frineds , i realised that this is quite a common problem with all the men, when their women feel insecurity that the men don't do as much , as they are supposed to do.

why god made women as an unsatisfied creature

2007-12-06 16:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And what are just the basics we can get by on? I'm thinking the whole budget should be about $4000 to:
order invitations
buy a dress
pay the ceremony fee for the church
rent a reception site
have floral arrangements
have a photgrapher
have enough hor d'ourves and wedding cake for 50-60 people.

Am I missing anything? Is it a bad idea to get a loan for just a one-day celebration that might take 3 or more years to pay off?

2007-12-06 16:25:48 · 21 answers · asked by Tres Leches 4 in Weddings

So I'm the type of guy that can really fall in love when he finds the right woman. I found this girl that is essentially the woman of my dreams but she only wants to be friends and basically doesn't care one whiff about my feelings. We stayed friends (even though she's kind of cold to me sometimes) and I tried putting any thoughts of a relationship out of my mind. Everyday, I battle with my brain to keep thoughts of her out of my head. I try to pretend she doesn't exist so I can go on with my day. I really try hard to forget about her and sometimes it works but...at night, when I try to sleep, I can't. All these thoughts of her flood my mind and I toss and turn all night. I can distract myself during the day, but at night, I'm at the mercy of my idle brain. I just want to be able to sleep at night. I'm a college student and I have finals coming up. Please, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-06 16:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would one treat the other if he/she is using him/her? What does it mean to use the other or what does it mean to be used? How would the relationship be if one is using the other?
Ex. "If _____, then you are being used."

2007-12-06 16:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an 18 year old college student in Nashville, Tennessee with limited money. Please someone help! I want to do somethin really special with her, i like her a lot! and i'm the type of person who likes to show is affection in big ways! what can i do though!! Nashville seems so boring! So far i'm thinking about a nice hike on a trail to a big scenary with a picnic, but maybe there is something else i can do! And yes i am willing to travel!!! at most three states distance! i.e. the entire east coast up until D.C., Virgina, etc.

2007-12-06 16:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 16:19:53 · 4 answers · asked by da da 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I'm not married and have never been married but being as that I am a 30 year old woman, I think about it from time to time. I remember hearing that an engagement ring should cost 2-3 months of the mans salary. I'm assuming most people coordinate some sort of payment plan but I really don't know. What is the rule, is there a rule, how do you decide how much to spend, and what do most women expect?

2007-12-06 16:19:35 · 35 answers · asked by laura1977 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are in a marriage and your spouse REFUSES to have sex with u and does not want to see a counselor. Is this a good reason to get a divorce?

2007-12-06 16:15:04 · 18 answers · asked by cyberdoggy420 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl. She seems really cool.
And she's pretty but that's not the point.

She told me that one thing she liked about me was that I always dressed nice.

I just found out her name yesterday and all of the sudden she tells me I dress nice out of the blue. That hardly ever happens so I'm not sure what's going on.

How should I flirt without seeming too pushy?

2007-12-06 16:12:00 · 21 answers · asked by Devan! 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a sophomore and I am a freshman. My BFF is the only one that knows and she is determined to get us together. (I'm to much of a wimp to make the first move) She is planning to get him to tutor us over the weekend at my house, but I have to ask him to tutor us. Do I just flat out ask him? Oh, and she said I should flirt while he's here, but subtlely. I am the worlds worst person at flirting, any tips are VERY greatly appreciated.

2007-12-06 16:08:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 16:08:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Guys.
Have you ever broken up with a girl that you started to lose interest in, not talked to her for a couple months or so, but then started to be friends again just to find you starting to like her again?

Has this ever happened more than once?

I ask because me and my ex went out for a year, broke up, didnt talk for a few months, went out again for 6 months, and now we're broken up again. I'm just wondering if he might start liking me again.

Thanks<3

2007-12-06 16:08:29 · 5 answers · asked by xxlife8874 1 in Singles & Dating

but when I'm single I tend to gain weight and not care EVERDAY about my appearance? I think it'd go the other way around but not for me.

2007-12-06 16:08:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He's 23 and I'm not very close to him anymore so I'm not sure what he's really into right now. He's a pretty typical guys though. I want to get him something kind of personal but I can't spend more than about 10 bucks.

2007-12-06 16:07:13 · 20 answers · asked by Taryn K 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we ended things in early october, a week later she is already in another relationship. I have no contact with her for a couple of months, then out of the blue she sends a text asking if I could look for her dogs who escaped since she was out of town and unable to. then a month later she sends a text asking if I came by her house but I didnt. that starts a day long email exchange. she had the impression I hated her. I let her know that wasnt the case, she gets real emotional and says she is still in love and in lust with me. she calls , leaves a hysterically crying message telling me how she misses me and still loves me. but she says she loves this new guy after only two months and thinks he could be the one. I am still very much in love with her but have completely left her alone aside from the exchange the other day . we are allegedly grown ups, she is 37 I am 40. the guy she is with seems decidedly unimpressive but is a good guy. is it possible she is really in love with him ?

2007-12-06 16:06:24 · 1 answers · asked by vladimir p 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to have a healthy, trusting relationship with a husband/wife without having sex in your marriage?

I'm 24 yo and someday I'd like to be married, but I have many insecurities about my body (heavy, cellulite, excessive hair). I'm very embarassed by my body and don't think intimacy is possible for me. I've been called terrible names (ie. hairy beast) and have gotten funny looks and hurtful comments (you're a bad kisser) in the past.

2007-12-06 16:05:17 · 20 answers · asked by sneakyme_69 1 in Marriage & Divorce