How would one treat the other if he/she is using him/her? What does it mean to use the other or what does it mean to be used? How would the relationship be if one is using the other?
Ex. "If _____, then you are being used."
2007-12-06 16:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually, that is when one person treats the other like just a body to do something with for a night, no emotional connection, no love, commitment. It is very cold and usually leaves the person who is using feeling empty (a just punishment I may add).
Using comes in different styles; a person has a relationship because he's "waiting for something better" and has no real commitment to the person he is with emotionally. This is a real case who thinks this way. He is basically very needy and desperate and can't be without a woman.
Good news though, those that use usually get used eventually and then will know what it feels like.
2007-12-06 16:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person does anything without considering your feelings or without your consent/agreement, or witholds information because they know that you would object, then you are being used.
2007-12-07 00:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you flirt with somebody & treat them really good, only so you can get them to be sexual with you. That would be you, using them.
Only wanting somebody for sex..nothing else.
2007-12-07 00:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by boomboxlove2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone takes advantage of you sexually especially if you're vulnerable than never talks to you after or only talks to you if he or she is looking to repeat his or her previous actions, then you are being or was used.
2007-12-07 00:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only hear from the other person when they want to 'hook up', then you are being used.
2007-12-07 00:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋