why god made women unsatisfied creatures?

Question

i do so much for my family, my wife, my kid but my wife keeps nagging and fault finding for nothing. she always compares with people and find other husbands as great.
offlate, this has become a habit and when i discussed this with my close frineds , i realised that this is quite a common problem with all the men, when their women feel insecurity that the men don't do as much , as they are supposed to do.

why god made women as an unsatisfied creature

Answer 1

Your question here shows a major problem in your relationship that could be making her unhappy. Instead of asking and talking to friends or even strangers on yahoo answers, why not turn to your wife... and ask HER. She is the one that holds the answers... not us. Maybe her dissatisfaction lies within your communication problems.

Answer 2

You know whats the difference between man and women?
Women verbalized feelings and action, men dont. And that's the sign of weakness, that's why lots of men cant take women, but men cant live women at all.
God did not create women as unsatisfied, it just God made a biggest decision to gave women the gift men should not have.

Answer 3

Dear Friend. You are not alone. I am also having the same complaint with my wife. The correct answer to your question can only be given by God himself, but I can say that women are generally were much possessive and they are jealous and somewhat aggressive on husbands. They want that theiir husbands should be under her palm and he should act as she wants him to do. This is a unique characteristics of wives in general. You should not complain and tolerate your wife's strictures. Good Luck

Answer 4

My best guess is that she is projecting her unhappiness in some other area of her life, into your relationship. Women have this bizarre and compelling need to compare themselves to other women--she has this house, or is this thin, etc. if this is the case, no matter what you do, she is going to want more. you need to discuss this her and replay the conversation but with her in your shoes (mark's wife jane makes the best chicken, tom is getting a new truck) I know it sounds silly but i bet she doesn't even realize how hurtful her statements are.

Answer 5

What's the matter with you? Don't we have enough trouble just having TWO sexes? Now, you want God to go and create a third level of trouble huh? Two's a party, three's a crowd. Ever hear that one before?

Answer 6

i actually don't think you should just put up with it and tolerate it. i am going thru a lot of marital trouble right now cos over the years i have become a demanding, nagging girlfriend and now wife. now, my husband isn't perfect himself, but he just quietly put up with it all, went away for several months for basic training in the military, and now, after years of not telling me he was upset and bottling it all up announces out of the blue (or so it seemed to me) that he wants a divorce. he is tired of taking care of me, has nothing left to give and feels that if he stays in this situation any longer he may even "get out" by killing himself:( this hurts so much, as i do truely love him, and since he never said anything, i did not realise that i was hurting him so badly over the years. and you're right, i was always feeling unsatisfied and it became a habit to take out all things on him, espescially since he would take it. do not let your relationship get to the point where you cant take it anymore. discuss things with your wife, maybe on a particularly romantic date just the 2 of you, so she doesnt try to turn it around, feeling attacked. let her know if you are feeling unhappy with yourself as a result of things she says to you and gently suggest couples' counselling. ( my husband used to suggest i get counselling when we would have fights, and this just turned me into defensive mode; dont do it during a fight, and suggest you go *together*, rather than her go alone cos she's crazy)
i'm not really sure im the right person for advise here, as things have all blown up around me; but i do know ive hurt someone i love unintentionally and am now going to get help to get me out of this terrible habit
sorry for the long rambling; good luck; that is all

Answer 7

as much as i sypathise with you i have to dissagree with you.
not all women are LIKE YOUR WIFE.you happen to have picked the wrong kind.
i hv this theory that in life especially choosing life partners is like putting your hand in the basket to pick an apple if you choose the wrong one you have to throw it away and try to pick another but if you are dont want to pick another one you just have to look for the better side of the apple and enjoy it.
so dear friend you have a choice its all depends on you.
Throw it away(divorce) or appreciate it the way it is and you will have you have alot to thank for.
hope i helped good luck

Answer 8

Perhaps you should set out some clearly defined roles in your marriage. You are the spiritual head of your household and should dictate spiritual matters.

I'd give your wife a copy of the book "Love and Respect" it will help her a great deal. Peace to you.
http://www.loveandrespect.com/content/about_love_and_respect.php

Answer 9

I'm not. I know my husband does his damnedest to please me and make me happy. I don't think a lot of women realize how much power they have to uplift their husbands. They sabotage them and bring them down. Most men are simple. If you take care of them, they'll take care of you! Easy! That goes for all aspects of a marriage (ie. in the bedroom as well). And don't blame God, he made us, man and woman perfect! It's sin that messed everything up!

Answer 10

No body's perfect.. and not only women but men too have all kind of problems.. so instead of finding fault, try talking to her... and sort out ur problems.. m sure she would understand... peace :)