I've never kissed before and have only a few times with him - I can't stand saliva. How could I ever do the french kiss? So I tell him to keep his mouth closed, but it doesn't work... it puts me off, but I really want to change this because I like him.
2007-12-06 17:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by Beletje_vos AM + VT 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to change my dislike of this - I want to like it as it's supposed to be pleasurable. It's just foreign to me.
2007-12-06 17:36:40 · update #1
Redz, I'm 20 - not a virgin, but yes I haven't really kissed as he's my first boyfriend ever.
2007-12-06 17:38:03 · update #2
Don't think when you kiss him. Don't think about saliva or anything. Just let yourself go and don't wander on petty things. Once you do that, it will get better. The problem isn't the kiss, it's you. Just forget about all that and concentrate on having a smooch moment with your bf
2007-12-06 17:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i've had sloppy kissing boyfriends myself. you sound like you maybe pretty young.. so i wouldnt really worry too much about it just yet, you'll learn what you like as you get older.. some advice, don't be afraid of telling him what you do and do not like.. but in a way not to make him feel rejected or unwanted. goodluck!
2007-12-06 17:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think of you would be uncomplicated with him. in case you under no circumstances tell him the form you sense hes going to think of you like it and it will continually be sloppy. while he kisses you with out plenty saliva tell him how plenty you enjoyed it. stable good fortune!
2016-11-14 17:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just heard on CNN, men kiss to get sex...and women kiss and evaluate that person as a potential lover..but you may not understand as you sound very young...never kissed??
2007-12-06 17:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kind of have to just get used to each other. I don't mean the spit everywhere. But, eventually, you'll get used to how each of you kisses and it will out. You won't be slobbering all over each other. :)
2007-12-06 17:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth. You will come to love it, saliva and all.
2007-12-06 17:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get use to it, try to exchange saliva by spiding into each other mouths, it will be discusting in the beginning, but is woth it at the end for the relationship
2007-12-06 17:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
So you want to change him or you?
1. You can never change a boy or man.
2. Either you like something or you don't. Never change yourself for a boy or man.
2007-12-06 17:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you are having hesitations on this issue I think you are not going to like it when he later wants to grab your ears or tie your hair in a knot around his waist
2007-12-06 17:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just show him how to kiss... using another guy as an example
2007-12-06 17:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋