If after I make love to my wife her vagina makes a farting sound does that mean she's cheating? She also seems to act distant. And I practically have to beg her for sex. I also have other hints, but I don't want to tip you ladies off. So can you please explain how you all would act if you were cheating on your spouse? Don't forget to answer about the farting thing. Just curious.
2007-12-06 17:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by lifelongskinsfan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is just air from the friction of the in and out movement.
A Women not wanting to have sex is not necessarily a sign of cheating. Believe it or not, there are many women that do not enjoy sex.
Being secretive about where she is going or what she is doing, an unexplainable change in routine, making frequent trips to the store (could indicate a need to make private phone calls), not wanting to go places with you (if she usually wants to go), etc... are all signs that there could possibly be something going on. If you see these signs, start doing some investigative work before you wrongly accuse her.
Women get distant when they are angry with a man, and they may withhold sex too!
2007-12-06 17:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Air gets into the vagina when you thrust in and out. It happens more in certain positions, especially doggy style. Maybe you both don't know what it is and you've embarrassed her about it at some point and now she thinks twice in case it happens again. Its normal and usually is a bit amusing, not something to worry about at all. Just say something endearing to her when you hear it. Why would you connect that with cheating? Because she goes distant? I bet she dreads that after effect if u have ever said something to ridicule her about the noise because its partly your fault she's doing it. Its called a 'queef' and we all do it .but most giggle about it when it happens. Its all part of the package of having sex.... Be nice to her about it, and see she'll relax and come back to you.
2007-12-06 18:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by dunwerse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't comment on whether your wife is cheating or if there are other problems causing her to act the way she is acting.
However, the sound you describe after sex is not a sign of cheating. It simply means that air has become trapped in her vagina, and is now escaping. Change positions if it bothers you.
2007-12-06 18:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The farting thing is air in the ********. As for cheating? If she was you wouldn't have been able to have the one time that caused the air. If she acts distant, maybe it's because you don't treat right.
2007-12-06 17:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by just me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the "farting thing" is a natural thing. Its when air gets trapped and, just like a fart... needs to escapt. NO.. it doenst mean shes cheating, it means - as with all women as they get older - her body is changing. things shift and move, so when you're... doin your thing, YOU are letting air in.. and when... the plug is removed.. .the air wants to escap.
As for the distance thing... tha could be a number of things. It could be psychological. Depression, just personal dissatifaction, maybe you've upset her somehow. The artist Monica said it best "its just one of those days/ that a girl goes through/ when i'm angry inside/ dont wanna take it out on you" Have you Talked to her about it? Maybe she just wants to talk.
As for how i'd act if i cheated...a) with this one.. i wouldnt!. But in the past, when i did (i'm not proud!.. but i'm realistic) i wasnt married, it wasnt sexual... when it did happen, it either made me feel so guilty i confessed, or it made me lose all doubt in the current relationship that it never effected how i reacted with the man i was in a relationship with. Either way... it never happened more than once!!
2007-12-06 17:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by loki_only1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are forcing air in. It has to come out.
You may not be pleasing her, that's why she is distant. Maybe you get off all the time and she just starts breathing hard and you are done. Sorry, but you might ask her what she likes and what will get her to the goal line. Please her first and you will get a lot more of what you want.
2007-12-06 18:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If my husband thought a queef meant I was cheated I probably would cheat because I'd think he's too dumb to ever figure it out. If you have to beg, and because you didn't know what a queef was, it might be because you lack experience....just a thought.
2007-12-06 17:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just air getting pushed into her vagina by your penis. Dont worry too much about it.
She could be acting distant for any number of reasons- including you making accusations.
Why not ask her what is up--- nicely of course.
2007-12-06 17:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by niffer 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A farting vagina doesn't mean she's cheating. But if her ankles start cracking, then she's definitely cheating.
2007-12-06 17:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Girls can fart out there pussy you know.
Its called a queef. It doesn't necesarrily mean they are cheating.
2007-12-06 17:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by Ziggy Stardust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋