like theres this guy who i like and i kind of stopped liking him but since i did it seems like he likes me now cause hes always flirting with me but at the same time he's already with someone so i was wondering is this true that if you love/like someone you should kind of let it go easy or stop and they might like u back or something like that or make it seem like you dont like them that much anymore cause like if u really like someone you shouldn't go crazy on them?? and thanks =)
2007-12-06 17:44:01 · 7 answers · asked by ohsofresh! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've heard the saying, "If you love something, you've got to let it go, and if it comes back then it means so much more." I think if you love /like someone and they've been playing with your emotions, let them go because they obviously don't know what they want. This guy seems like he's jealous because you're not paying him as much attention as you used too. For some reason some guys don't realize that a girl has had a crush on them until they've moved on to someone who did notice them. If he really likes you he'll make the next move.
2007-12-06 17:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cescee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The saying you are referring to is, If you love something let it go. If it comes back to you, it is yours.
If not, it never was.
The only problem with that is that some people, guys and girls, may want to come back for reasons other than love, for example for sex, because they want to control you, and several other reasons as well. A good thing to do is to work on your own life and be as good a person as you can be and then if that doesn't come back to you, you will find someone better for you. You may lose a penny and spend your life looking for it but by letting go you may find a dollar bill elsewhere. I will give you a good site which may help but if this guy is flirting with someone else as well as you, it may be better if he doesn't come back to you. Good Luck!!
2007-12-06 17:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to believe that you should let something go, and if it's meant to be it'll come back.
But not in this case... I don't believe that you should let this guy come back into your life. He has someone else already and he's just now flirting with you.
I also like to believe: If he/she cheats with you, he/she'll cheat on you.
2007-12-06 17:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by 7155_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in that saying, but I don't think this applies on you current situation. He just wants to see if you have any feelings for him or he's just being a man and just trying to leave the door open for in case the other girls doesn't end up to be what he expected!
2007-12-06 17:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by nano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just like the chase. If he is with someone else, I would not get too involved with the way he acts. If he becomes your bf then he will probably be flirting with someone else.
2007-12-06 17:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't come back, they just make you believe that they are then you are like a back up if it don't work with whoever they are with. Don't settle for being a back up for him.
2007-12-06 17:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Shawna 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont believe that it never comes back!
2007-12-06 17:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋