If you got the one of your dreams, what dreams did he meet? If you settled, what did you settle on and why (in other words, what did you either overlook or do without and why)? What advice would you give others as to the settling issue? What did you find most important/least important and why?
2007-12-06 17:47:00 · 9 answers · asked by lmspencr 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married before and my second husband is the man of my dreams. We have had problems but nothing that we couldn't talk about. Hes here when I'm sad, when I'm sick, when I'm worried and we can talk to each other. He is my soul mate. He knows my likes and dislikes, he knows what is bothering me before i tell him. We are just close and love spending time together. We have alot in common and are able to share our thoughts with one another. we never go to bed angry with one another. its just better to be able to be with someone that is your best friend.
2007-12-06 18:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you're sensible adequate to differentiate the 2. Your dream man is a made up person that exists simplest for your head. He has a distinct this, and that approximately him that makes him fascinating to you. It is a superficial photograph and now not practical to anticipate any individual to reside as much as. If you think that you just have got to 'settle' for the following first-class factor (soul-mate), this can be a certain signal that you are kidding your self. If you move on your 'dream man' you're 'settling' for sadness.
2016-09-05 10:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by murarilal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found the guy of my dreams. I would never settle. I would not advise it either. Marriage is work and sometimes it is hard with someone that you love. It might not get over the rocky patches with someone you do not have a deep connection with since you settled for someone unsuitable.
2007-12-06 19:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated the guy of my dreams. Turned out, what I thought I wanted for so many years was not at all what I wanted. I did not love him. Now I'm engaged to his polar opposite, and have never been happier. I think its most important to listen to your gut instinct. You'll know when you've met the right person.
2007-12-06 17:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Settling brings grief, love brings happiness. Hold out until your knight in shining armor arrives.
2007-12-06 18:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, and the sadder thing is I don't even have dreams about the guy of my dreams anymore.
2007-12-06 17:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm single right now. to me, that's settling. i rather settle. @least i know it's predictable, and he won't cheat. no room for disappointment, b/c everything's already infront of me. u know?
2007-12-06 17:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by ohsohot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Found the guy of my dream..of course!
2007-12-06 17:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
settled, then got divorced.
2007-12-06 21:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by sugarpie2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋