im in dilemma right now...i want some views in this problem...thanks in advance...
2007-12-06 17:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by ^a.hermit^ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No unless you are committed to making it work no matter what happens.
2007-12-06 17:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience I would say no, don't do it, I married a man within 9 months of meeting him (NO I WAS NOT PREGNANT, I CANNOT HAVE CHILDREN) and it was a huge mistake, his true personality really only came out after about a year or so, and it was a shock to discover the man that I thought I had married was in fact very far removed from the person he actually was. I would say get to know him, marriage is a HUGE commitment and if you get it wrong like I did then it can take a lot of time, energy and heart ache to fix. I got a divorce after 3 years.
2007-12-07 02:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not wise to marry someone you have known for less than a year. People can pretend to be someone they are not for short periods of time but in the long run their true self comes out. Marriage is tooooo important to be unsure about and careless about it. A dilemma is not a reason to get married no matter what the dilemma is. Hope all goes well.
2007-12-07 01:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never marry a man you barely know. Stop and think, on one hand he could be a good provider and a good husband, two reasons. on the other hand, he could be controlling, he could be a potential abuser, he could already be married somewhere else, he could be a child molester, convicted of a crime somewhere and so on, five reasons there alone for no marriage without trying to think of any more, which I know I would be Able to. find someone and get to know them first as a friend before getting more serious or you are lost somewhere in between marriage and divorce.
2007-12-07 01:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Please don't marry a man you don't know. Marriage is a sacred thing not to be wasted or divided. If you don't know a person, don't marry them. It's as simple as that. The expectancy for couples to divorce is already about 50% don't make it higher by marrying someone you don't know. Marriage is sacred and a serious thing. Don't take it lightly!!!
2007-12-07 01:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by likelove 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
are we talking an arranged marriage...if you have a choice, sill question, you should obviously get to know the guy better, if it's arranged, just hope for the best.
2007-12-07 01:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly I don't think you really know someone until you live with them... depends on what you mean by barely know.. also depends on why you are getting married.
2007-12-07 08:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by hitchnj 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get to know him first, marriage is a pretty big commitment.
2007-12-07 01:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by crazi3 c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's a matter of right or wrong, it's more of a matter of stupid or smart.
2007-12-07 01:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course.
Otherwise. you'll never get to know him.
2007-12-07 01:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by niceguyswlondon 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋