Is anyone else? I feel so lonely its not fair. How do i cheer up?
2007-12-06 22:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks everyone for coming to my rescue and lending some warm words, i feel a bit now and can sleep <3 will get back with the best answer tomorrow. thanks so much everyone <3
2007-12-06 22:49:13 · update #1
*Yeah, happiness is a hard thing to find...and I know it's wrong, but I do envy those who have been able to find it.*
Anyways I'm in the same boat as you are, it's like everyone continues to give you this false sense of hope by telling you that "one day" "he" will cross your path and then you'll basically live happily ever after and what not.
Says who though?
I mean I'm happy that other people out there are happy...but is there something they're doing/saying that's hidden in the shadows that the rest of us have missed or what?
I would just like to know their secret to dating success to be honest.
*I guess all you can do to cheer up is to just be thankful for everyone and everything that is in your life for one. Then remember that you can't think negative thoughts, because you'll only receive negative feedback in return...it's like karma.
I suppose those of us who haven't found 'love' yet, are supposed to be consuming our time with other things right now. Maybe like school, work, finances, our future in general...stuff like that. I don't want to sound all preechy or whatever, but sometimes we have hidden priorities that we don't even know about. In that case, maybe love isn't on the agenda just yet.
......So until the day when Romeo strolls across your way, I guess we'll have to keep supporting the ice cream company and buying those 1/2 gallons ;) just kidding.
Try your best to be happy and stay positive, your karma will be good for you in the end.
2007-12-06 22:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize. I feel the same way. But I'm not so lonely anymore. I spend a lot of time with friends and family...and when on rare occasion a sweet guy comes along I enjoy the fun without worrying about marriage.
2007-12-07 06:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by sci55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you shouldn't try to think about it all the time. Love comes when you least expect it. Concentrate on other things...like ur career or ur studies...hang out with friends when u feel lonely...that sort of thing. And don't worry if the horizons are bleak...one day he will come for you and make all your dreams come true. Build up your life on the assumption that that day will be tomorrow...that way you'll always have something to look forward to :)
2007-12-07 06:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kapes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop waiting for some1 to drop in your lap. Its never gona happen! Instead, go out with friends, have some fun, meet new people. You never know, the love of your life is out there somewhere but your not gona find him wallowing in self pitty. Put a smile on your face (even if you dont feel like it) more guys will come your way if you do.
2007-12-07 06:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up Sera Chan ! U may add me on in ur Ym @ : muraledh@yahoo.com & come for a chat anytime around 10 am in the mornings or 6 pm in the evenings. Let us get to know each other first & fast,
With kind thoughts,
Murali.
2007-12-07 06:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start you are "waiting" - if you just wait then nothing will happen - you have to put yourself out there.
Secondly - never act desperate as its very unattractive.
Thirdly - work on yourself and being the right sort of person - true to yourself, confident, and optomistic - so you attract the right sort of guy.
Finally - be patient, it WILL happen.
Only when you are happy with yourself can you find soemone who will make you happy.
2007-12-07 06:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure most of the world is in the same boat you are. Could be worse. What's worse is when you think you found your one and they leave you. I cheer up by doing activities I love or hanging out and doing something with friends.
2007-12-07 06:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know dat this world is too fair enough.. there is surely someone for u... only time will tell when that person coming to ur life.. u cant force... u cant just wait.. ppl who being patient will get the best.... really trust me...
2007-12-07 06:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill with some friends, that always seems to work, it helps get your mind off of things. Trust me, I've been there. And it really does work.
2007-12-07 06:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Indian Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 year and a half and still waiting.
I said I wanted to be more than friends. she huged me. I think thats good. But enough about me
you wana chat your welcome.
nevermind I mesunderstood your ?
2007-12-07 06:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋