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there is this guy in my class he use to use to have a crush on me but i had a crush on some else. But now he likes some one else and i like him can u please help i'm so lost.

2007-12-06 22:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by la di da 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

Ouch.

Yes, that is always how things end up working out isn't it?
I know how you feel...however I am pretty sure that you know just as well as I do that you cannot "make" someone feel or think a certain way about you.
It's like they either do or they don't like you "like that," there is no in betweens.
My only suggestion is that you just accept it for what it is and maybe have a friend drop a hint around him that you like him, and see how that works out.

However sometimes you have to remind yourself that things don't always work the way you would like them to. Meaning that you might go swim across the ocean for this guy and back, but it does not mean he'll like you again.
So while your intentions are good in a lot of aspects in wanting to date this guy or whatever, just don't put your "all" into...I just don't want you to be disappointed in the end or anything.

It's still worth a shot though, I mean afterall the guy did like you more than a friend at one point. There could still be feeling lingering there for you somewhere...so have a little faith and give it a shot and see what happens ok?!
Use your skills and creativity and figure out a way to grab his attention and let him know you like him :)

2007-12-06 22:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you are definitely lost, sweetie. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror and ask, "Is it all worth it?" Crushes are usually a temporary thing...look how fast he got over you and you over that other guy you had a crush on! You're wasting your time. Instead of asking, "How can I win his heart back?" maybe you should instead be wondering, "How on earth did I end up having a crush on this guy?" LOL focus on what matters-definitely not crushes or guys-your studies! That's your future-not guys! Haha...hope you take my advice :) I used to be a pretty boy-obssessed person in high school but it wore off after awhile...

2007-12-07 06:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kapes 3 · 0 0

^you know the feeling of guilty?,this will bother you everytime you saw him. So, you must show something that can catch his attention. Try to be close to him, join him whenever he was alone. And start asking him about love and finnaly stick to the point, ask him if really like that gurl. Coz you know maybe his trying to make you jelous for what you showed to him when he is still likes you.

2007-12-07 06:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by mariane 1 · 0 0

This is how it always happens! no good answer, but here's a lil idea... just invite him to a gathering u no will b fun that is not just u 2 or intamit. This way u can maybe lure him back in 2 u??

2007-12-07 06:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

now that he got tired of waiting for you and found someone else....you decide you like him? You're right you are lost.....let him be happy be it with or without you

2007-12-07 06:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by idiotzaint 6 · 0 0

Just start talking to him, make friends with him. See where things go from there.
If things go further, then great.
If not, well hey, at least you made a new friend!

2007-12-07 06:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by BAMM 4 · 0 0

Lmao are you related to tohn nguyen little asian kid 12 years old lives in minaosta

2007-12-07 06:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he likes someone else, he is just not that into you. please read the book called ' He is just not that into you" its made a world of difference in my life - see my other questions for proof

2007-12-07 06:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by jessica secks 2 · 0 0

Well, You do you atract bees to huny?
Answer, with flowers !!!!!!
Show your friend your "Flowers", just becarefull, it might give you a sting in return.

2007-12-07 06:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by thiny72 6 · 0 0

show him how much you like him and be best friends then one day spill it out!!!!!

2007-12-07 06:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

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