this is confusing but here it goes
my x-gf we broke cause she was moving to ejrsey she is moving back i was like yay but i got a new girl and this new girl she gave her virginity as a birthday present i luv her but i luv my x-gf more i dont want my gf to think i use her cause im not like that HELP!!!!!!!!1
im18,x gf 16,gf 15(when i ahve sexualrelations iw as still 17 one day before my b-day)
2007-12-06 22:19:21 · 13 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well.....of course I'm going to say the adult thing is that neither of you should be having sex, because you are too young and this is not love. But, since you have already had sex that is a mute point. If she thinks so little of her virginity as to give it out as a BD present...then I think she should be fine with the truth. Tell her you do care, and you did'nt use her...but there is someone else you met before her, that you care alot about, and you want to see if that relationship can work again, before you try with someone else. Good luck!
2007-12-06 22:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're pretty lost, boy. And you kinda took advantage of your gf in a way...she gave you her VIRGINITY??? Wow...well maybe you should recheck your definition of Love. What is it for you? Is it sex or way more than that? And then...look at ur options...why would you get into a new relationship if you weren't already over your ex gf? It's not a question of who u love more, or who gives u better sex...this is about you and the choices that u make which may also affect other people (in this case, ur gf). Don't think about yourself, for once and look at your gf: would she be happy if you broke it off with her to get back with an ex? Nooo...definitely not. Don't be selfish about it...talk to her and get her take on things-does she love you? And besides, was there a formal break-up between you and your ex when she moved out? Because, if there wasn't...you're a dead man, lol.
2007-12-06 22:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are pretty much s.o.l. Stuck between a rock and a hard place. But i take it that you already know that. Why did you move on so fast if you still had feelins for your ex. Thats whats wrong with SOME men, it seems as though they cant stand to be alone, they just have to have some one. your ex moved and you moved on. now your ex is back and you have this little girl who gave you her virginity....i guess you must really be something special, huh?
Does your ex even still want you back? Do you think it will last? Which relationship seems more promising? If you are a senior in h.s. will you be going away to college once you graduate? Think long term instead of short term. All 3 of yall are still pretty young, I dont know where each of yalls maturity levels are right now, but the only one who could really solve this situation is you.
2007-12-06 22:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Real Talk 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your kidding right?!
Of course she's going to think you used her! She gave you her virginity as a birthday present (sick in it's own way!)
Sheesh buddy.
Best of luck - cause by the sounds of it, someone is going to get hurt, and it might even be you.
2007-12-06 22:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by xaenith2002 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stick with what you have now , is here, is present. Make the besst out off it , now that you can.
You got given a Big Great present my friend . Something that not many guys get .
2007-12-06 22:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by thiny72 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess the decent thing would be to explain to your ex-girlfriend that you have met someone new and that it would be unfair to break it off with her. You need to honour your new girlfriend and give the relationship your best try. If it really turns out that you are not meant to be together then it will work out that way and if you are really meant to be with your ex, it will happen eventually.
2007-12-06 22:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by nectarine head 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What ever you decide your going to hurt others,but unfortunately that can be part of a young loves experience of life. Best wishes and remember to be honest with the young ladies and your self.
2007-12-06 22:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay with your new girl and respect the fact that she will always trust you and love you... your ex- is your ex......If you didnt think about how much your new girlfriend gave to you, out of Love and Respect than obviosly you and your ex wont work... Why did you let this girl give you her virginity if you werent true to her???? What comes around goes around, Just remember that....
2007-12-06 22:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Bullshi**, you are too... Young. dudes think they can lie; but in fact they sound so damn ridiculus to us that are sitting here reading whatever you decide pleases you to write..was it worth 5 points...there's your answer... IF you don't like all that at 17; your missing the point of being fkn' 17 man!!! Now..pull your head out and figure out how to have your girlfriends and eat them too!
Do it in the spirit of the '70's...
2007-12-06 22:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rosinbagger 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do you think i ll do my best to answer just because of the "10 points to the best answer" thingy?I sure would in a case of a "help" for ex. + i liked the part of "17, one day before my b-day".that is considered 18!!!!!!
2007-12-06 22:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋