Not much to say really, we organised to meet and bus into town, I went to the stop and waited there for close to half hour and went home. Turns out they left without me because 'the mobile was dead and they didn't know whether I was still coming'.
In short I was ditched, it's not the first time something like this has happened, and I've had it up to the eyeballs. is it time to get new friends?
2007-12-06 23:45:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
in response to mr LA and to clarify my wording. There cellphone was dead, mine was in my hand from the moment I got to the bus stop, and untill I got home, and was several times used to try call there cell phone...the DEAD one.
2007-12-07 00:01:49 · update #1
it is also never turned off and always charged...
2007-12-07 00:04:34 · update #2
The time I would have been threw with them. No cell phone available. True friends don't treat others that way. Found some new friends that are considerate of your feelings.
2007-12-06 23:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kasey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me ask you this... if they tried to get a hold of you, your cellphone was dead, this isn't the first time and they weren't sure if you were coming? Then could it be you? It doesn't sound like your very responsible. Your cellphone was dead.. do you not charge your phone. They weren't sure you would show... which means you are ususally not on time or you don't show at all sometimes. They did try to call you. I think you might want to talk with your friends and get an answer. If none of these things are correct and they just keep ditching you then Yes you need to find new friends.
2007-12-06 23:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by L A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how on earth can you ditch them if you were ditched? Seems like the ditching was already done. If you want to quit being friends with them that sounds a bit immature. Do you have a history of NOT showing up? If not then maybe you should find some new ones but just remember Friends are not like underwear, they are great and something that you really want to hang on too!
2007-12-07 02:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that I would ditch them entirely, perhaps just start making new friends that don't include that group. Then when you have plans with the new ones and the old friends ask you to join them, you'll be able to say that you "already have other plans with some friends, maybe next time." Perhaps, after a while, they will get the message. Friendship needs an effort made by both parties in order to maintain it and keep it strong. When one or the other party stops making the effort, the friendship suffers.
2007-12-06 23:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friends dirch me ALL the time....I get pretty ticked but their my friends... I still ditch them tho to make them feel bad.. Hahaha! You can't blame me for being a boar in the chinese zodiac! But still, if they ditch you a WHOLE lot then of course! Go ahead and get a gf or some new friends and hang with them..
2007-12-06 23:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you too should,
its very difficult and takes a lots of time to find a worthy person to be friend,
so one should avoid hurting, it doesn't solve any problem, rather increases worries.
2007-12-07 00:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Karan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you must talk to them and ask whats the problem, if they are true friends maybe thier is a valied reason why they ditch you
2007-12-07 00:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Dellz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new ones
they sound like they just want to mess with ur head
2007-12-07 06:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep friends come and go sounds like they arent real friends anyways!!
2007-12-06 23:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by lil pit cat 71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋