Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

2007-12-10 06:50:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok girls, what if you and your boyfriend were talking about when ya'll started dating, u know, and ya'll know that when you first start dating a guy, they really don't take you serious until like one month or so of dating... anyways i asked my boyfriend that i believe that he was with oth girls, while he was dating me at the beginnig, i meant like sexually together, and he mad a face and i knew he mean tlike a yes... how would ya'll have felt? i mean even though it's in the past...

2007-12-10 06:49:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I leave for work at 7.30 in the morning. I get back at 6 at night. Nothing is ever done around the house. It is now 7.40 pm and I've seen her for 5 minutes. She works 3 hours a day, 2-5. As soon as I came in she said hi and disappeared in to the bedroom to watch her bloody soaps. So far my dinner consisted of a bowl of soup and a packet of crisps. I cook at the weekends. It it too much to ask to have the house cleaned ( the vacuum cleaner hasn't see a plug socket in over two years) and to have my dinner cooked for me!?

2007-12-10 06:47:17 · 21 answers · asked by Thunder 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We had sex for the first time, I was a virgin, he wasn't. I thought he was good, but I hope it wasn't bad for him. I didn't really know what I was doing, so I just did what he told me to and what felt right? It lasted for alot longer than I thought it would though, is that bad? Does that mean it was bad for him? It was like an hour and a half. I'm just worried I was horrible at it, but it was my first time so I will get more used to it. It only hurt right at the beginning and after I was sore... is that normal?

2007-12-10 06:46:18 · 11 answers · asked by thequestioner 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 06:45:46 · 37 answers · asked by Curiosa 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A boy who lives near me,who i see nearly every day,rough,sporty and kind.

2007-12-10 06:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a little selfish at times, but not a bad person. my wife blows up on me once a month on average. says stuff to me like i dont think of her enough, etc. etc.
do all husbands deal with this? i am not asking this question to be a wise guy, but just wondering if i got a raw deal.

2007-12-10 06:41:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a little selfish at times, but not a bad person. my wife blows up on me once a month on average. says stuff to me like i dont think of her enough, etc. etc.
do all husbands deal with this? i am not asking this question to be a wise guy, but just wondering if i got a raw deal.

2007-12-10 06:41:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT SIZE. I mean physical appearance.
Due to a certain childhood accident with a pants zipper there is a HUGE scar along the tip that makes it look deformed. Plus it is significantly curved to the left side. Also due to a low blood pressure condition, there are several large varicose veins running along it.

2007-12-10 06:39:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she been talking about sending me away all just because I didn't like her boyfriend I'm about to be 16 soon very soon and I can't stand my mother I HATE HER WITH PASSION. so many broken promises so many shed tears for stupid things my mother is mentally but I don't care she blames everything thing for her mental illness and takes no responsibililty for any of her actions if I was sent away I wouldn't care because my mother is insane and I can't stand her. about the revenge part when she gets old I was thinking about putting her in a nursing home where she can get abused because she deserves it . I can't stand everything she does she never there for me and nver home all she does is yell and I'm happy when she's not home I HATE HER.

2007-12-10 06:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Personally I don't think we can change our spouse, but I do think we can influence them. Everyday we can influence our spouse in a positive or negative way.
If someone is trying to change their spouse, would you consider them a master manipulator? Reasoning, "If I do this, then my spouse will do that." "If I can make my spouse miserable enough, or happy enough, then I'll get what I want." I believe this way of thinking will run us to a dead end road. Even if they change, they will resent you for manipulating them.

2007-12-10 06:34:53 · 22 answers · asked by unknown 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have friend that I knew from BEFORE when he was single. He used to make jokes about how women did not want to be with him. I imagine this bothered him even more so because he is a great catch and he knew it. Fast forward one year he met someone and a year later he got engaged. Now he has been engaged almost a year. Why is my friend still making jokes about how women find him unnattractive?

I want to hear from married couples because you have been through the whole engagement experience.

thank you for your cooperation.

2007-12-10 06:34:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are not getting along. I found him registered on dating sites and left the house about four weeks ago. He changed the locks on my house and I could not get all my belongings... (I have been giving him money to help pay for the bills to his house, even though I haven't lived there for a month.)
We set up a time and day for me to get my belongings. When I went to the house. He wouldn't let me in. He said that he would box my things and hand them out the door! I was sobbing! My life was in there! I called the police and he let me in only for an hour! I am mortified! I have been helping him and trying to think through everything! He is the one who was looking for love elsewhere! And now he is saying he cheated on me!
Is this normal? Also his mother and father were in the house with him and they would not let me in!

2007-12-10 06:34:05 · 13 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to get a feel for how old the Answer crowd is...I think I have a general idea, and I want to see if I'm close.

2007-12-10 06:32:34 · 28 answers · asked by Joanne 3 in Singles & Dating

So my fiance's parents gave him a check for $2000 for moving expenses and so we can have some type of money for our small apartment we're renting this weekend.... so he asks me if he can have half of it for his college school loans? As if we didn't need that money to move, to buy groceries, and to furnish an apartment? I seriously feel hurt that he feels he needs that money for a student loan that can be paid for later on... What should i do? Isn't that money OURS instead of HIS?

2007-12-10 06:31:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that it can have positive effects, like enhancing your excitement or teaching you how to do new things...
but i want to hear about people's problems with porn within their married relationship and problems you've encountered.

2007-12-10 06:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by nillachica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 06:31:01 · 21 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Singles & Dating

I have really grown to love him and the thought of another person's hands on him makes me a little sick. He has told me that I am the one that he loves and the others will be just sex. I am open to the idea of opening our bedroom when we eventually become bored with each other (in the distant future), but not after 3 months. Can anyone shed some light or experience on this topic?

2007-12-10 06:27:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 06:21:06 · 30 answers · asked by ♥Sabre♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 14, and a faithful baptist. one of my good friends are gay, she smokes, curses, and other sinful things. She's going through alot in her life, her dad abandoned her, her mom is gay, her step mom and mom think she is on drugs and having sex, and she isnt. she feels like there is no hope and said she wished she was dead/ i know that if only she turned to God, that things could get better. i know miracles happen but i really dont see her changing her sexual prefereances, and i believe its a sin. how can God help her if she isnt willing to sacrifice at lest that much. i know that if she would just turn to God that things would at least get on the right path. she cant talk to anyone bc its really hard for her to open up to ppl, so i am really glad that she has been talking to me. i dont want to shove my beliefs down her throat, but i dont know how to get started with helping her besides prayer. she posted this question....
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiUoGCKrgwgJyg.DmWTuD6Lsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071210074546AARv9vv
this is not a joke, any suggestions or advice? thanks!

2007-12-10 06:18:48 · 2 answers · asked by simplicity 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So this past friday things where abruptly broken up between us because she said she just lost feelings, and was very confused, and didnt know who she was, I was in shock, now on saturday she calls me and we talk and at the end of the call she says "I love you". Sunday in the morning, same thing as saturday we talk and everything seems like it might be ok, she doesnt call me later but I see her online and shes deleting all of are pics off photobucket/myspace, and says her "friends" are what she needs, these are the same friends who caused her to drink and hate life before. So I call her and shes says its over get it through your head and also says some very hurtful things. Later that night she calls me and says shes sorry for saying those hurtful things and that shes just very cofused, and says she loves me. Now this is killing me inside, because i love her more then anything so everytime she calls it gives me hope. but i think thats hurting more then just cutting it right now, help????

2007-12-10 06:18:31 · 1 answers · asked by CrazzzyKidddd 1 in Singles & Dating

If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . I'm being wasted on the single life . I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .

2007-12-10 06:17:45 · 13 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

Everybody thinks being single is so wonderful ! If being single is so great, why doesn't EVERYBODY in the world break up with their romantic partners and then SWEAR TO GOD never to get into another relationship ?

2007-12-10 06:14:37 · 15 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm an American man, and I see bunch of Asian girls around me.
And all of my friends are crazy about them.

Me, I was never attracted by Asian females.

So tell me guys, what's the "thing" about Asian girls?
Is it just because they're "easier" than American girls?

2007-12-10 06:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This came up in a message board on a singles website. Some guy told me that most men don't like it when women withold sex from them in a non-marriage relationship (mainly a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship).

I plan on remaining celibate until I get married (I'm 26 by the way). Do most guys find that to be a turn off or not?

What is your opinion about this? Does this fit with most guys you are friends with or hang out with? Or are most of them respectful of a women's choice to stay pure until marriage? This question is out of mere curiousity.

If you'd like, you may include personal experiences.

2007-12-10 06:13:40 · 5 answers · asked by chrstnwrtr 7 in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged to my fiancée for a year now. We dated for 6 months and were friends for a year and a half before the engagement. When we dated we did had sex. While we were friends I didn't have sex with her due to the fact that we were just friends. I knew that she liked me a lot and wanted a deeper relationship, but because I wasn't feeling the same at that time, I didn't engage in sex, not wanting to lead her on. She was open to continue to have sex even as friends though. Now that we are engaged, our sex life has not been the best because she's never into it. That's because I trained her she says that sex is not important to me and that memory is trapped in her head. So now she doesn't see me in a sexual way. Sex has been dead for months now. She'll have sex with me, but puts nothing into it. She does it out of duty. Is this normal and if so, what should I do to make things better? Did I make a mistake by stopping having sex with her when we were just friends?

2007-12-10 06:13:36 · 36 answers · asked by Northstarr 1 in Singles & Dating

What would have to be your favorite place to make love?!

2007-12-10 06:13:14 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

okay well my fiance was killed in a car crash sept 21st i am preg with his 2nd child concieved 5 days before he died and i have his 3 yr old son well the guy that was driving was very drunk and he promised he would never drink again and he was at a bar on friday night in which he said he wasnt drinking he was supervising his sister which i believed him because he made this promise to my dead fiance and myself and i went onto his myspace and he has new pictures on it which his eyes are glossed over and in one of the pictures he is holding a beer and the pictures were taken last night why the hell would anyone who killed 2 people by drinking and driving and said they would never drink again be gettin drunk and he also has been talkin crap about my dead fiance in which he was suppose to be his best friend sayin he was going to leave me but 5 days before the crash he was trying to get me pregnant because he said baby i want to have another baby with u i love u

2007-12-10 06:10:59 · 4 answers · asked by Dclp8204 5 in Friends

in nothing but high heels or in sexy lingerie while tightly tied up?

2007-12-10 06:08:38 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 06:07:46 · 3 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Singles & Dating