We had sex for the first time, I was a virgin, he wasn't. I thought he was good, but I hope it wasn't bad for him. I didn't really know what I was doing, so I just did what he told me to and what felt right? It lasted for alot longer than I thought it would though, is that bad? Does that mean it was bad for him? It was like an hour and a half. I'm just worried I was horrible at it, but it was my first time so I will get more used to it. It only hurt right at the beginning and after I was sore... is that normal?
2007-12-10 06:46:18 · 11 answers · asked by thequestioner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it was good for him. It can't be "bad" for a guy. The real question is "Was it good for you"? Thats what really matters.
ps I hope you were ready and safe and all that good stuff.
2007-12-10 06:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by ChillChick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its going to hurt and then you'll be sore thats perfectly normal...my first time lasted 15 minutes lol, i'm sure he wouldn't have went on for an hour and a half if you weren't any good, and i am positively sure he took into consideration he was in the lead and you were just following his lead...
2007-12-10 14:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by platinumplaiigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is normal. Talk to him and ask him. Alot of people like being in control. He probably loved it. Just talk to him. If he wants to do it again then your worth it. Dont worry about your sex, worry about his. If he is the one you really like then be open with him and tell him. If he pants as in breathing hard, and makes moaning sounds. some dont some do. there are some things that show you. read cosmopolitan it explains guys better than anyone can.
2007-12-10 14:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad when it last long. Yes, it's normal to feel sore when it's your first time.
2007-12-10 14:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal to be sore. You are going to have to ask him if it was good or bad. No one has that answer except you and him.
2007-12-10 14:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cherri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He had sex - it was good. He lasted so long probably because he was used to it. If you are comfortable with it and had fun, that is most important, then it was good.
2007-12-10 15:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afterwards.. did he stretch out on his back, fall asleep and start snoring? That's always a good sign...
And if he couldn't get it up for a couple hours afterward......
2007-12-10 14:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beginners are often not perfect because you need practice. Please don't worry about it and talk to him. Some people like taking their time and enjoying it. Shoot-last night I went 3 hours!
2007-12-10 14:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Casie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LAMO NO WAY, you described exactly what happened with me and my gf same thing time and the Way your described it lol funny. sounds normal to me. I enjoyed it so i think he did also.
2007-12-10 14:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sl^t if u lasted an hour as a virgin he must of put a viagra in your drink trust me babe u did good but he must of had a small penis
2007-12-10 14:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by bertospmr 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋