she been talking about sending me away all just because I didn't like her boyfriend I'm about to be 16 soon very soon and I can't stand my mother I HATE HER WITH PASSION. so many broken promises so many shed tears for stupid things my mother is mentally but I don't care she blames everything thing for her mental illness and takes no responsibililty for any of her actions if I was sent away I wouldn't care because my mother is insane and I can't stand her. about the revenge part when she gets old I was thinking about putting her in a nursing home where she can get abused because she deserves it . I can't stand everything she does she never there for me and nver home all she does is yell and I'm happy when she's not home I HATE HER.
2007-12-10 06:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well yea you could do that but by the time your Mom is ready for a nursing home you will be older and hopefully not so full of hate. That hate is going to eat you up, please get rid of it, you would be better off if you felt a disconnection to your Mom. Your hate is an emotion, an energy that keeps you attached.
2007-12-10 06:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by April First 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw.. I know just how you feel. My father is a "retard", a habitual liar, countless broken promises, irresponsible and I HATEEEE my father alot I wana KILLL him seriously. Lol I wouldn't even bother sending my father to nursing home b/c I don't see my father anymore. Last time he came to see me I pushed him off the stairs. Well lucky him he didn't trip and never came back since then. I promised myself if he ever comes back again I will seriously smash him up. My life is better without him around. As for you, I think you wouldn't even bother about sending your mom to nursing home when the time comes. You would move on and focus on what is best for your life. But sending your mom to nursing home is thoughtful. It would be better off she can get the care she needs there and I think she won't get abused lol. Oh and you should try help your mom too b/c she is ill.
2007-12-10 06:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by James ™ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's horrible that she's treating you like that! But you wouldn't be any better than she is for putting her in a nursing home! You want her to be abused??? As much as she mistreats you, she will always be your mother whether you like it or not.
If her attitude bothers you that much go talk to a counselor about it. Or let her send you away to somewhere else if you really dislike her so much.
2007-12-10 06:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by natassiakc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.. i'm sorry you're going through this.
your mom really does need to get treatment and learn how to cope with life... it's her choice, and sadly she's not doing what she needs to in order to manage her illness.... there IS help... and some people just don't seek it... unfortunately.
what you can do is take care of YOU... talk with your school counselor about your life situation, your mom and ask for guidance.... this is a way YOU can help yourself... and since you are upset that your mom isn't getting help, it would only make sense for you to seek some assistance to learn to cope and manage your own life....
you deserve good things.. xo
2007-12-10 07:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know it's a damn shame the way you have been treated and I do understand how you feel. My childhood wasn't the greatest either. But you know what the best revenge is: BE SUCCESSFUL AT WHATEVER YOU CHOOSE TO DO. Then, in time, work on forgiving your mother because all that hate you are harboring will do nothing but hurt you and your future relationships.
My father wanted nothing to do with me. NOTHING. I hated him for years because of it. He adores my brother but wanted nothing to do with me. No calls for birthdays. No calls for Xmas. Nothing. I had to make up my mind that he doesn't control my life and that I had to forgive him for ME. I see him now. I say hello with a smile because I have made something out of myself and he no longer affects me. THAT IS TRUE REVENGE AT ITS BEST.
2007-12-10 06:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by powrbruh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand your predicament but ill tell you a mother whether shes good or bad will always be your mother.if shes mentally ill why hate.i think she needs you more than you do.dont you think so.hatred is evil.it will damage your life,your soul as well. prayer do wonders.why not pray that God will give you both happiness.try to forgive and eveything will follow.Love and respect your mom and a great reward will follow.God bless.
2007-12-10 06:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If by way of revenge, you mean "thank you mom for doing this further artwork for my income" then yeah, you may desire to provide her revenge. consistent with danger you may desire to slap her face with a mushy kiss. that would desire to repair her little crimson applecart! make certain's may be so mean!
2016-11-14 08:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by zeh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what all is going on between you two but it sound like you both need help go to counseling because you will always need family. I don't think revenge is the way to go.
2007-12-10 06:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by ltucker20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand why you feel this way today.
when you grow up, you will not want revenge.
Just work on your life and forget her (she has her own mistakes to deal with)
One day you'll work it out with her.
2007-12-10 06:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by kjay_39 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you go stay with your dad? you need to talk to someone. a school counselor or someting.
2007-12-10 06:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋