ok girls, what if you and your boyfriend were talking about when ya'll started dating, u know, and ya'll know that when you first start dating a guy, they really don't take you serious until like one month or so of dating... anyways i asked my boyfriend that i believe that he was with oth girls, while he was dating me at the beginnig, i meant like sexually together, and he mad a face and i knew he mean tlike a yes... how would ya'll have felt? i mean even though it's in the past...
2007-12-10 06:49:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't ask questions that you may not like the answers to. First rule of being a happy person, if you can't handle the truth, then don't ask the question.
2007-12-10 06:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well...if you insist on bringing up the past...then be ready for the answer. What matters is what is in front of you today...do not dwell on what was because you already know that it isnt real serious with any new couple for at least a month or two. Until you have a ring on your finger and or a promise...you have no right to ask or dictate what he does any more then he does you.
2007-12-10 14:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by jslorri 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would feel that it no longer is an issue and shouldn't have been brought up in the first place because it does not change that fact that you are together now. Why start an argument over something so trivial.I swear people want to argue sometimes.
2007-12-10 14:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it was before you were officially a couple, then who cares.... if it was after that, run now! He can't be trusted and he'll only bring misery!!
It would make me feel like he wasn't that into me/serious about me at the start, otherwise he would have dropped all of that. I would make sure he isn't talking with those girls anymore either.
What kind of horn dog are you dating anyhow? LOL... I've never been concerned of a bf doing this with me.
2007-12-10 15:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The past is the past but i would still be a little mad.
2007-12-10 14:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by ltucker20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel really low selfsteem and like uncomfortable with that thought in my mind... but i wouldnt let the past get in the way of NOW....
Tell him he just better never cheat on you...and that he should value you...
2007-12-10 15:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should leave things of this nature in the past. You are only stirring the can of worms and you nor him will like the end result.
Been there...
2007-12-10 14:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by simpleminded 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how you look at it. You can say he was "cheating" on you, but if you didn't have a "commitment" to only date each other, then it isn't really cheating. Or you can say, "I'm obviously the best of all the gals he tried!" And feel proud of yourself.
2007-12-10 15:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by transplanted_fireweed 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did he answer you or did you @ss-u-me the face he made was a yes. and like the 1st girl said, be careful what you ask, you may get an answer you don't like!
2007-12-10 14:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even thought it was in the past i think it would still kinda bother me. sometimes you should not ask questions like that because the answer you get is not something you want to hear.
2007-12-10 14:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by karls dream 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋