I know that it can have positive effects, like enhancing your excitement or teaching you how to do new things...
but i want to hear about people's problems with porn within their married relationship and problems you've encountered.
2007-12-10 06:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by nillachica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When we start expecting our wifes to act like the woman in porn and they resist we have a very bad problem.
If you don't watch porn you won't expect a fake woman.
2007-12-10 06:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by teeman824 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last 2 long term relationships both involved men (boys) that were really into porn and sex chats. Since I am an open person, I believed that rather than punish my BF, I would participate and act like it was okay so then he would not hide stuff from me -- sounds good on paper, right? Looking back on that one, I believe that it desensified him to 'real' women and later developed some problems with even being ablr to get excited. The other one was addicted to chat rooms, everything from myspace to yahoo, etc, and eventually led to getting on dating sites. Because of this, I never really let him get close to me since I knew about it from the beginning. He never knew this and when I did confront, it was 'oh its not real, its just for fun. Well we broke up. I am currently in the best realtionship of my life with a wonderful man and the best sex life ever. Oh, and he doesn't get porn, is so turned on by me and we do not have internet at the house......
2007-12-10 06:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by livin the dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I dispute that learn that blames porn for injury-ups. Porn is purely a topic, and injury-united statesare on the subject of communique issues. As on your concern, i think of you ought to consult with him at once approximately this, extremely than last silent and easily thinking what's happening. And please, do no longer communicate via digital mail on important concerns on your relationships -- in case you may not communicate face-to-face, then a minimum of communicate on the telephone. "Expressing" your "concerns" in writing sounds like some administrative maneuvering -- your courting is a courting, expensive, no longer a bureaucratic place of work ecosystem. :-) yet you're on the final music on your willingness to be versatile, in which you're no longer looking forward to him to offer up watching it completely. Oh, and what's the status of your courting -- related to whether this is closed or open -- considering which you reside in distinctive cities? whether this is open or closed, have you ever the two easily agreed on those parameters? by way of fact if the two of you is purely assuming what the parameters are, that's a recipe for an eventual gruesome marvel. In ALL courting -- gay and at once -- direct communique is the main needed ingredient.
2016-11-15 04:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by pipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married for 2 and a half years and I don't like it when my husband watches porn.. he always denies it when I catch him but I know that he sometimes prefers watching porn instead of spending time with me and this hurts!!! to be honest I think it is a kind of cheating as he enjoys looking at other female bodies.. I really hate it and don't understand man.
2007-12-10 06:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lemi 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It has made me feel insecure when I know my husband looks at porn, and we don't have sex. As long as it doesn't effect our sex life in a negative way Ive been okay with it..I also know that when a man masturbates to often it is harder to please him with sex, his nerves are less sensitive, and the orgasms are less pleasurable.
2007-12-10 06:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jengi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its may be hard to control your spouse to do what you want.
If they are receiving sexual release from porn, then you are not the gatekeeper to sex and they become more dificult to bend to your will.
2007-12-10 07:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There hasn't been any negative effects in my marriage.
2007-12-10 07:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex got addicted to porn and sex chat.He obsessed about it.later he kidnapped and raped a neighbour of ours.It was awful.He now is serving 27 years in prison.See it causes them to stop seeing women as people and merely see us a sex objects.Stay away from porn.
2007-12-10 06:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well ever since i find out what he preffered rather than me i tell u divorce is soon to happen in future. its that bad with me and him now
2007-12-10 07:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by baby doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to want to be impaled by a bigger one; he's going to want to have another female join in!!
2007-12-10 06:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by no_telling2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋