Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

how do you treat her, do you avoid her, ignore her?

what are some signs that something is up and you have a problem with her?

2007-12-10 07:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 07:54:35 · 5 answers · asked by im_iz bust it baby>3 2 in Singles & Dating

please explain.

2007-12-10 07:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Marky M 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance has a 4 1/2 yr old daughter with another woman. We are torn apart on what to do!! We know for a fact that her mother smokes pot, drinks and has several men in and out of her life. She doesnt have a stable job. She is now without child care and just found out that she is getting evicted from her apartment with nowhere else to go. She is never home when it is time to drop off his daughter on weekends. It's almost as if she doesnt "want" her!! We dont have a lot of money, but we have a stable home and jobs. We have 3 children together and feel she would be much better off living with us! I know that the courts cater to mothers with children and try to leave the child with the mother, but do you think we would have a chance??

2007-12-10 07:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by Heather C 2 in Family

2007-12-10 07:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We had a party and my brother's wife was sitting in the lounge with all the men after dinner, drinking sherry. I told her she should go and help the other women in the kitchen clear up because she was acting like a loose woman. She went very red and told me not to tell her what to do in her house. Well I got very angry as me and my brothers were brought up to be the men of the house, and so I told her to leave now or I would force her. Then her husband slapped her. I think she deserved it. She started crying and I haven't seen her for 3 weeks now. Should I apologise?

2007-12-10 07:52:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like what do you do? and how do you act around her?

2007-12-10 07:52:08 · 2 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Singles & Dating

I've tried so many different things to try and not be depressed. Medicine, therapy, new hobbies, hanging out with friends, etc. But still I am so depressed. All I can think about what my wife is doing and how she can abandon me and not even care & have no regrets about the affair and running across the country to live with the guy she knew online for a couple weeks, & hurts more she is "happy" with her decision. She has no idea the amount of pain and anguish she inflicted on me & her family, neither does she even care. Everyday I wake up wishing I was dead, I still cry everyday cuz it feels like I've been stabbed repeatedly, and it's been 3 months. I feel like I'm about to breakdown. I don't understand how someone can do something so terrible like she did & have a "happy life" jumping into an affair, while I'm left holding the bag suffering and not even look back. How do I gain my happiness back? Been 3 mos & still depressed! Do ppl like this ever feel remorse?

2007-12-10 07:51:58 · 39 answers · asked by BlaBla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance has lived in my house for about 3 yrs and out of all our bills he only pays for half of the grocery bill . I pay the mortgage, cable, phone, internet, water, electricity and oil bill. I've agreed to the arrangements while he gets himself out of debt. Our wedding is coming closer and he still has about $6000 in debt. I've also been saving for our wedding. He has not saved 1 cent. He is always promising to help real soon but then months and years go by. He also has a job with no sick or vacation time. When it rains he does not work and he does not get paid. He also gets laid off over the winter. I am getting frustrated! Please help.

2007-12-10 07:51:56 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well my fiancee is great but hes very sensitive...he goes to work from 4pm-12am and i only work a few hours a week. i feel like i get no other human contact...i dont have any girl friends but i do have a friend that i did date in my teen years. we are friends now...and i he can only be a friend to me because he just doesnt cut it for marriage material...

so..i went out with my ex and my fiancee gets steamingly pissed at me...as if he would rather me sit here all day alone with no one to talk and nothing to do...ive been doing it for almost 5 months straight. that can really have an effect on someone mentally..

like i said before...this guy was a puppy love relationship that turned bad and i know it would never work between my ex and i because we have both matured and are different people now. but he knows me...so its easy to talk to him...

am i doing anything wrong? or is he just being unreasonable. he wouldnt act different if it was a different guy either..or not an ex bf.

2007-12-10 07:49:19 · 7 answers · asked by kool k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy but hes kinda shy,
not shy like he wont talk to people, but shy like hes awkward around girls. He told my friend that he thinks I'm "really hot" but he didn't say whether or not he likes me. This girl asked him if he was gay because he doesn't really date girls, and he asked who wanted to know... she said my name and some other girls. He said that I should know hes not gay. But how would I know that? Also some other girl asked him why he doesn't date and he said he was concentrating on school. I really like him but he doesn't really talk that much. I'll say hi to him in the hallways and he says hi back. Other than that we've only had a few conversations... Since he said hes concentrating on school is there no way he would date?... How can I get his attention?

2007-12-10 07:48:23 · 2 answers · asked by boogie<3 1 in Singles & Dating

????????????

2007-12-10 07:47:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend left his myspace page open on my computer and I snooped for no good reason. He had a message in the trash from someone who wasn't his friend asking if he was interested in little boys. I called the police, who came over and took information. They'll be contacting him soon and of course, I hope he's an innocent bystander. How do I break the news to him of what I did? Seriously, I can usually answer questions for myself, but am quite apprehensive. Help.

2007-12-10 07:46:59 · 23 answers · asked by Lovey 5 in Friends

idk just wonderin...
i love my boyfriend so much and just wanna know.
we have a really good relationship and barely ever argue.

2007-12-10 07:45:45 · 31 answers · asked by lee lee 2 in Singles & Dating

What documents do i need and who i need to call?

2007-12-10 07:45:28 · 4 answers · asked by Claudio F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my family has been forever supportive to me and as much as possible i don't want to fail them.. just that i know they couldn't and wouldn't accept my current relationship. so you see, i'm with a "butch" (another girl) who i love so much and that i'll do what i can to save the relationship.. i don't want to lose either of them.... whew!

2007-12-10 07:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex has the ego of a 20 feet tall man. He thinks I'm jealous of his current relationship and that he is getting married again next year. It's been four years since our divorce, we're still friends and civil to each other, but I have absolutely no romantic interest in him any longer (especially physically!) Should I intentionally burst his bubble for my amusement?

2007-12-10 07:44:02 · 26 answers · asked by Vanessa's mommy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My poor father is 87 yrs.old and is totally disabled. Recently I spotted my 14 yr.old daughter giving my dad a piggyback ride to his bedroom. He is rather light at only 140 lbs. My daughter says she can barely feel his weight on her back and had been carrying him for a while like that without telling me or her dad.

2007-12-10 07:43:58 · 5 answers · asked by ponyman 1 in Family

2007-12-10 07:43:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated and I don't know what to do..its human nature to be sexually attracted to the oposite sex, but I made a bad decision and acted on it and now I feel so regretful and bad...

2007-12-10 07:42:55 · 39 answers · asked by confused<3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 07:39:48 · 4 answers · asked by bean 1 in Singles & Dating

i think its true

2007-12-10 07:39:28 · 1 answers · asked by souljagirl#1 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you convince someone that you really want them out of your life? After years of marriage, my husband doesn't believe that I really want a divorce. He won't leave, he refuses to see how unhappy he makes me. I ask at least once a week for a divorce and ask him to leave. I don't want to have to kick him out as he really does deserve better then that. So how to deal with the situtation?

2007-12-10 07:38:41 · 15 answers · asked by carmeliasue 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I made the mistake of telling my friend who I liked, then she told my neighbor who is really close friends with him. She said he wasnt gonna tell but after knowing him 5 years i know better. Anyway, I talk to the guy I like just about everyday and he tells me A LOT and I don't know how I'm going to talk to him knowing he MIGHT know I like him
One of the things he told me by the way was that he liked this girl in our school (I do know her name but I won't write it) and that he was going to ask her out this week but she just went through a breakup so I'm not sure what she's going to say
ANYWAY.................. what should I do?

2007-12-10 07:38:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys
im the most boring person i believe......im very easy to talk to n get along with but.........
never got time to socialize ever since i moved to portland OR two years ago n all i have done since then is going to school part time n working fultime i barely have time for myself. i never got a chance to meet people n make friends.(unhappy with that)

im on school winter break n finally taking time off work from for a week but i dont know what to do on my days off ( just staying home n get rest from work i guess cuz that is wat i do ever weekend bored to death n watch tv) but that wont help....i really need to do something that is atleast going to make me happy n get over my dialy stress.

i have my lil sis...she is my only friend

pleas help n give me some ideas of wat i can do for fun on my off time or atleast socialize??

2007-12-10 07:36:12 · 1 answers · asked by Sahro A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She was called Suzy Q or John's girl or something like that. Well it turned out to be a kid messing around. This kind of stuff is really time-consuming and annoying. Who else agrees?

2007-12-10 07:35:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, we have a friend named Sally. We also have a friend named Susan. Susan is bisexual, but Sally is straight. Susan wants to be more than friends with Sally, and it is pretty obvious. Susan is bullying Sally into a relationship she doesn't want and is not comfortable with. Sally is a very nice, passive person, and thus won't stand up for herself and she is afraid of Susan. We want to help, so what should we do?

2007-12-10 07:34:18 · 7 answers · asked by lost in a haze 3 in Friends

me and my ex were together for about 3 yrs, he was really nice, but he had a temper and always put his friends before me and other things, i know i can do better, but i miss our good times, how do i accept it is over and quit wanting to stalk his facebook, i also feel like i would be jealous if he were with someone else .. any advice..
thanks

2007-12-10 07:33:15 · 3 answers · asked by eye for an eye,we are all blind 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy my age. I am almost 18 and I do have curves. I am alitle bit taller than he is and when it comes to weight, I weigh about 20 pounds more than he does. He believes that he is fat and that he needs to lose weight. I told him that he didn't need to lose weight and he said he didn't care what I said. So I asked him what his dream girl looks like. He said blonde, blue eyed, and thin. Which I am not any of these. He said it doesn't matter what I look like but I know deep down it does. He says he loves me for who I am all the time. I cried myself to sleep that night because I knew I would never be the girl he truly wants. That has been a month ago, and I have developed an eating disorder because of this situation. Should I tell my boyfriend that I have an eating disorder because of him? And if yes how do I tell him? Please someone help me!

2007-12-10 07:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by raidergurl2008 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 07:31:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating