So, we have a friend named Sally. We also have a friend named Susan. Susan is bisexual, but Sally is straight. Susan wants to be more than friends with Sally, and it is pretty obvious. Susan is bullying Sally into a relationship she doesn't want and is not comfortable with. Sally is a very nice, passive person, and thus won't stand up for herself and she is afraid of Susan. We want to help, so what should we do?
2007-12-10 07:34:18 · 7 answers · asked by lost in a haze 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sally needs to report Susan to the authorities immediately.
No one has a right to force you to do anything.
And if you and your other friends are really friends to Sally, then y'all need to step up to the plate and tell Susan that she's wrong.
If Sally can't do it for herself, then help her. Why don't you report Susan to the cops? It's wrong and you know it.
Susan is a bully and a coward. Why do you even want to be friends with such a feign?
Who's next should she succeed in getting Sally to bend to her will?
Would you allow a male rapist to harm Sally and not help her?
I really hope not.
2007-12-10 07:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless Sally is raped by Susan, there isnt really anything you can do except tell Susan to cool it. Sally's a big girl I'm sure she can tell Susan no by herself.
2007-12-10 07:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by senorrobertoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has somebody sat down with Susan and told her what Sally is feeling? If that hadn't worked then sit her butt in a chair and tell her to lay off and be extremely close to Sally
2007-12-10 07:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by black+white=grey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gawd. pft if i were sally i wood kill myself. IS sally going to kill herself? anywayz i wood get sally a bf (or just a good guy friend) so whenever this susan person comes by he can throw his arm around her shoulder. Maybe susan will get the hint. Good luck peeps i wish you the best.
2007-12-10 08:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's style of a hard seize 22 concern, blackmails and ultimatums continuously are. although, the main suitable ingredient to do, definitely, is to your buddy to bypass to her dad and mom and enable them to comprehend the situation. She ought to tellthem with regard to the photos and with regard to the abusive boyfriend. emotional abuse is one ingredient, yet while a individual threatens actual abuse, this might properly be an entire different deal, an exceptionally severe one. She desires to bypass to her dad and mom and enable them to comprehend each little thing that is going on. Her dad and mom love her, i'm beneficial, and although that's a hard concern, they are going to be there for her. while they comprehend what's occurring, she will finally injury up with this guy and get herself returned on course. it is not honest to must be forced to do something, extraordinarily below blackmail. In all honesty, your buddy quite would not have a decision - till she desires to proceed to be with this guy, tell her dad and mom no longer something, and stay miserably for an exceptionally long term. stable success!
2016-10-01 07:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lock susan up or get her interested in another girl/guy
2007-12-10 07:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by mnmz4lyf 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you guys need to tell this friend thats pressuring then to back off and that she is making this other girl uncomfortable.
2007-12-10 07:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋