why would he do this?

Question

okay well my fiance was killed in a car crash sept 21st i am preg with his 2nd child concieved 5 days before he died and i have his 3 yr old son well the guy that was driving was very drunk and he promised he would never drink again and he was at a bar on friday night in which he said he wasnt drinking he was supervising his sister which i believed him because he made this promise to my dead fiance and myself and i went onto his myspace and he has new pictures on it which his eyes are glossed over and in one of the pictures he is holding a beer and the pictures were taken last night why the hell would anyone who killed 2 people by drinking and driving and said they would never drink again be gettin drunk and he also has been talkin crap about my dead fiance in which he was suppose to be his best friend sayin he was going to leave me but 5 days before the crash he was trying to get me pregnant because he said baby i want to have another baby with u i love u

he gets sentenced Jan 23 on 2 counts of aggervated vehicular homicide

i have not talked to him since i found all this out 12 hrs ago

Answer 1

i know i shouldnt be giving an adult advise because i am only 13. but my dad died in a car accident in which his friend was also drunk and driving. he died 5 months and 14 days BEFORE i was born. so your story really bothered me. im sorry about what happened. but this guy needs help. he needs to go to rehabilitation and get help. better you he needs to be in jail. people shouldnt break a promise in the first place but the fact that he made a promise to never do again what he did that took his "best friend's" life..thats just sick. you should never ever do something like that to someone.

i wish you the best of luck with your life in the future.
And I do believe that your finance truly did and still does love you.

Answer 2

D8402,

I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I lost my cousin on December 21, 1995 to a drunk driver. She was one of the best people I knew. She was only 26 years old. I miss her so much.

Regarding the recent information on MySpace, this should be downloaded and presented to the prosecutor and the presiding judge as soon as possible. It's evidence of his lack of remorse. They'll know what to do with it.

As to why this jerk would behave in this manner. It's simple. He's a drunk. And drunks do to mean things to get their rocks off. Don't trust the words and deeds of this idiot. He only seeks to bring harm to a wider audience. Don't give him the satisfaction.

I wish I had words of comfort that are appropriate for a time like this. I hope with time you will find yourself and your children in better circumstances.

Sincerely and respectfully your,
Alan K.

Answer 3

i am sorry for your loss you and your family will be in my prayers it is a terrible thing to go through my best advice would be don't go on his my space and as crazy as this may sound pray for him he may be a sick man he could be a alcoholic that does not make it any easier i know but if he has not accepted the fact he has a drinking problem he is in a bad place if he goes to prison thy will have AA for him and i am sure the courts will make him go i only hope he can find the Peace i and many others have found in recovery like AA GOD bless and i hope you can forgive him and find love in your life again some day

Answer 4

why is his *** not in jail? don't understand why would u be speaking to him or even believe a word his irresponsible self says??