Do guys always look at other girls, even when they have a girlfriend?

Question

Girls, how do you feel when your boyfriend does this? Do you confront him about it?
Guys, do you get jealous, sad, mad, whatever, when your girlfriend looks at other guys? How do you handle it?
For guys and girls...do you mean anything by it when you do this? Or does it just come naturally and its something you cant help? Do you think this its wrong?

Woops, kinda messed up the grammar on the last question. Sorry. I meant "Do you think this is wrong"

Answer 1

All guys look at other girls. Heck I even look at other guys. Just 'cuz you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu!!! As long as all they are doing is looking and not doing a full on "turn and watch them walk away" then I think its ok and just human nature. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship and you shouldn't even have to question if your guy is straying because he looks at other girls. If you can't trust someone you shouldn't be in the relationship!!

Answer 2

I've been married for four years, I look at other women all the time and have gone to strip clubs many times in the past. My wife tells me all the time about guys she likes and watches wrestling, mainly so she can check out the hot muscular guys in skimpy outfits. The reasons? When you have been with someone long enough you become secure enough in your relationship. Looking at someone honestly doesn't mean a thing. We are human beings and we are always looking at other people to size them up. If they happen to have attractive features its always a bonus. If you have a problem with your significant other looking at other women or men, it is a problem that you have, not them. Now if he or she is looking at, then talking to, and going further, than that person is a scumbag. However there is never anything wrong with looking. If I am looking at someone I'm not thinking about trying to get with her, I'm just compelled to check out the hot chick, and then go back to my day. I honestly have never understood why women get so upset with their guys looking at other women, unless he totally is ignoring you, which is just rude. But again, otherwise, there is nothing wrong with it.

Answer 3

I hear that people still are going to look at other people even in a relationship, a frightening prospect, but hopefully whoever I'm with won't be the type to cheat,

I would'nt say I do it much but then again I'm single, and some think I'm a bit prudish, so not asking people out could be the reason I'm single now =\. But thats irrelevant.

I'm not sure if its wrong or not, but I can certainly see how it could make someone uncomfortable, especially if they were flirting or something. I guess it depends on the person and how confident they are with themsleves and their partner

Answer 4

I look at other men all the time. I can appreciate if someone is attractive to me either male or female. I am in a very happy and commited relationship with my boyfriend. But I can easily say, "he's handsome" or "she's really pretty." And it means nothing. I think it's human nature for our eyes to seek out what we think is beautiful. I just know in my heart that my commitment is more than some superficial beauty and I'm happy where I'm at and with whom I am committed. I don't think it's right or wrong, I think it's just natural and it has nothing to do with someone cheating or not cheating either.

Answer 5

I have been with my husband for the last 9 years and they have been wonderful, I do not want to be with anyone else but I am human so If I see a good lookin guy walk past I look but I leave it at that, my husband looks to,( at women) we are human and it is our nature to look, there are alot of beautiful people in the world the one thing that we have to remember is the grass is always greener on the other side or so it would seem! Am I jealous when my husband looks and thinks another girl is goodlookin darn right I am but we are honest with each other he will tell me and I tell him, there will always be someone that is better looking or better in bed or whatever but we have learned to be content in what we have together! we are honest and open, and we both try to understand that we nautraly look. it is impossible to not to! as long as you dont take it to the next level I think looking is healthy, it makes you strive to keep your partner happy!

Answer 6

It's human nature to think someone's attractive. A lot of people go by the motto, "You can look, but you can't touch." Overall that's pretty good to go by to keep yourself out of trouble. But I will say if you're with the person, they're looking you dead in the face while you're talking, and stare, that's pretty rude.

Generally nothing is meant by looking. It's pretty much your brain literally noticing that the person that caught your eye fits the visual qualities that you like, and the natural reaction is to look.

Answer 7

Well it depends on the person.

Most people aren't secure about themselves.

I personally don't care if my women looks at another guy. The reason I don't care is because I keep my girl happy. I told her when we started dating that if she wanted to be with anyone else to tell me and I told her that it wasn't a big deal because is not.

Some guys are insecure so they try to keep the women controlled and that just ruin things because if she wants to cheat she will do it anyways.

But to answer your question as a guy and all guys look at other girls is natural you see a sexy girl somewhere your not gonna look. If you believe your guy doesn't look you are not paying attention.

Women do it to, so don't feel bad, sometimes they even wonder what I'm I doing with this Mutha F-

Answer 8

Many do, sure. Why shouldn't they? Just because you have a lovely work of art at home, doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't admire others you see away from home.

Looking at another woman and recognizing she's attractive doesn't mean the guy wants to be with her...many women do the same thing (notice other guys, even when they are involved with someone).

It's NORMAL to do that. ☺☻

Answer 9

I don't see a problem just looking. I love women, that doesn't mean that I'm going to cheat on my girlfriend, I just love the beauty of a woman, doesn't mean anything at all. I really don't care if my girlfriend checks out another guy. Her view on it is the same is my view, we're in a healthy honest, trusting relationship, & that's all that it boils down to. Why get upset if someone "might" cheat. If they want to bad enough they're going to anyway & if you get pissed over it, you'll end up pushing people away.

Answer 10

Yea, I look at women. I find this pretty natural, but unfortunately, some women don't. I know that my wife looks at other men too and I also find this natural. However, you have to understand that it's just a look. I'm the one married to her and I trust her. Trust is the key element her, not the fact that either one of us looks at the other gender. I also have to admit that early in our relationship it made me jealous, just as it made her jealous. Weve been married over 20 years, the jealousy is gone, I have 100% trust in what she says and does. BTW, I don't think looking is wrong.