2007-12-10 03:36:56 · 10 answers · asked by MSMajor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm single, the biggest problem with marriage is the sharing of everything. The fear that that she will move in and change everything in my house and life. I do love her but it's a different from what you are use to be. To make things better, if he has a say in the furniture and where things go. Maybe have one room where his old stuff can be and your old stuff can go. You may have to convince him that everything will be better after the change.
2007-12-10 03:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy of course, but men can be scared of marriage because of the financial obligation required in being married, plus many people I have known have not met their match and end up settling for fear of being alone.
When you meet your match you will know and none of that will be an issue.
I'm female, but my boyfriend is begging me to marry him..and he was married once and swore he would never do it again.
I asked him why the change of heart and he said that I was what he has been looking for all his life...So, with this thought, a man will change and bend over backwards for the right woman, but YOU must be the right woman!
2007-12-11 00:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional Cowardice. I even have been married 15 years, jointly for 18 years. I knew on the 2nd date that this woman may be the only that i wanted to be with constantly. It makes such a difference understand which you have somebody to proportion your day with. No dark and empty place to return to, understanding that somebody would be there that can assist you you in case you get into hassle, somebody that desires you if no longer something extra advantageous than in elementary terms a hug. somebody who brightens up the room whilst they walk in and you recognize that their smile is prepared approximately you. a majority of those issues and extra make up no longer in elementary terms a courting, yet a existence. Many adult adult males won't be in a position to deliver themselves to place self belief in all people that lots. It takes some bravery to look at a youthful woman and spot the the two certainly one of you twenty years into the destiny. And evaluating females to nutrition is a crude a clumsy fallacy. I by no skill hear adult adult males asserting: "Oh, it may be like ingesting my favourite beer each evening and by no skill having the different style."
2016-11-14 07:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by purifory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female terrified of marriage, and it's coming soon. We are expecting a child and he has recently moved into my house. It has turned my world upside down, I love him and all - but sooooo stressful! I feel like I'm the only one grown up enough to handle this child and lifestyle. He is not willing to give up nights out with the boys, all his sports, watching football, etc. His best friend is a complete asshole to me, and is in our lives 24/7..... The thought of my life before him and now destroys me. I am terrified of it getting worse after marriage, and of him taking me for granted even more than he already does now, and I don't know if I'd accept the ring - I'm freaked! I love myself a lot and have high expectations of my partner, I don't want to get married because I don't believe in divorce, and I know I couldn't spend a lifetime this way.
Basically I am scared of losing myself, my comfort, the life I have built for myself and come to love, my independance, my space, my social life, my idea of self respect (i.e.: I would NEVER choose to have his friend in my life), my house!!, my vision of a beautiful future, settling for less than I deserve, etc.
2007-12-10 03:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Scary to men, some women are just as scared!
2007-12-10 03:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a man is not ready for marriage he is not in love, maybe there is something inside him that hasn't grown or something in his partner that he finds unsatisfactory. I was crazy about this guy in university and he didn't want me because he thought I was immature.
2007-12-10 03:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Cost/Benefit analysis
2.) Change of venue, status and increased responsibility and arguments over things that never were problems before
3.) Ya know what's worse than being alone? WANTING to be!
2007-12-10 03:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called Peter Pan syndrome. Men don't want to be men, they want to be little boys. They always think someone better is going to come along. It leaves women with nothing.
2007-12-10 03:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are completely wrong.
Marriage is only scary to the "boys" or "guys" you have been meeting.
Men are not scared of commitment.
Good luck.
2007-12-10 03:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the scariest thing to them is loss of freedom,their identity,and variety.
2007-12-10 03:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋