My boyfriend says he wants to go to a strip club, but he says he is just joking around. I think he actually wants to go and i told him if he ever did that i would break up with him. Is this really over exaggerating??
2007-12-10 01:49:47 · 8 answers · asked by Binky :-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think your exaggerating..don't be to insecure..let him be...
2007-12-10 01:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ronnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he goes to a strip club and you break up with him, you would not be exaggerating.
However, what's the harm? Do you think he's going to leave you for a stripper - a woman who makes money by flirting with guys, taking her clothes off, and shaking her stuff in his face? If you're that insecure, you need to have a talk with him about how you feel. But don't be insecure about something like this - it's pretty natural behavior for men to want to go to strip clubs, and they all come out unscathed, still single, wishing they were back with their women.
2007-12-10 09:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is silly. Going to strip clubs may not be your cup of tea, but guys have always liked to look at the female body. To men, it is very beautiful. So you are angry because he looks at another girl ( woman ) naked? Does he touch her? Does he kiss her? Does he go home with her? Alot of couples go to strip clubs together. Maybe you only want him to "Look at you?" You won't always be around. If he wants to see naked women, he will. I'm sure he won't leave you to be with them. Maybe you can put on a show for him?
2007-12-10 09:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres's 2 sides to this. youcould consider it exaggerating because all it is, is looking at other women and do you honestly believe he doesnt do that already. i bet you look at other guys. but you could also say that looking at ohtewr girls while your out in pub or club is 1 thing but why does he specifically want to go somewhere to look at other women. its not exaggerating because its really down to how u feel about it. just remember there's nowt wrong with looking at the menu, as long as u dont order
2007-12-10 09:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not overexaggerating...it's controlling. None of us like strip clubs and knowing our man is at one, but you act like he's cheating on you. Yes, there are practically naked women there who may be all over your man. But any good man realizes that they only want money and that's why their dancing. No respectable man goes to a strip club to cheat, so what are you worried about. I'd say the bigger issue is you trusting your boyfriend. If you trusted him you'd know he'd go, look, give them some money, and then come home to you, the one he loves and respects.
2007-12-10 09:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Marra's mommy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It seems like you are insecure and controlling, but if you really would break up with him over this, then no this is not "exaggerating."
2007-12-10 09:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by jonmm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes...
First how old are you 2? Is this a long term realationship? Its sounds like he respects you other wise he would not have bothered to ask...
let me give you a little tip I've learned over the years
The more you don't want him to go or "allow" him to go the more he's going to wan't to go just to make you mad.
If you don't let it bother you...he won't want to go.
2007-12-10 09:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don`t think so. you don't really
know if he is kidding. he may
say he his but he may not be.
but don't worry. if he really loved
you he wouldn't do that to hurt
you. if he goes break up with
thats good thing to do because
he said he was kidding and
wouldn't go. so if he goes that
makes him a liar. but don't worry
lol.
good luck!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-10 09:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by joelle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋