Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde how can a man seem so good but be so bad?

Question

I noticed this wonderful man one day in the park playing with his young son. Not only did he seem like a devoted dad but a genuine nice person to everyone he met(helped a old lady with her car) One day his son came over to see my dog and we had a little chat. I found out he was newly divoced and lived in the same area as I did. We ran into each other a few more times and he asked me over to his place to watch a movie we both had been talking about. When I got to his place we spent 2 hrs just talking about me where I grew up,what I did for work,hobbies ect HE was the one asking and seemed so interested in my life. He then asked if he could kiss me and one thing lead to anouther and we had s@x. After that everything changed. He turned cold and rude. When before he would cling to every word i said now he could hardly be bothered to look at me when I talked to him. Nerver calling to take me out only calling when he wanted a booty call. Plus i just found out he has/had a gf all along

Answer 1

Just so you know, you screw'd up. NEVER, NEVER, EVER (and weres your mother? she suppose to teach you this crap.....) EVER EVER JUST SLEEP WITH A GUY!!!!!!!! Its not even about being easy or a whore, its about you not being the opposite of those. It means your controllable, ignorant, easily misled, easily manuplated, clueless, and just plain a waste. No offense, but guys talk about this time and time agian when you ladies are not around. Theirs girls, that we screw, and then theirs woman who make it so you work for it and you actually make love! So you ruined it, you got what you deserve becuase you made yourself just like every other girl. Your also weak to a pretty strong game their lol!!! He's good, really, but still a bastard. But realize to the fact that he pushed sex on you that quickly, made him a boy. So sorry to be offensive, your a girl who had sex with a boy, and hope something else would come out of it, CONGRULATIONS your in highschool again! What do you expect? Be smarter, test people, don't give in to your own morals, or better yet, get some better ones.....

My understanding is this, unless you have a purpose thats deeper then your own selfish interest your still just a child I don't care if you had kiddos, it doesn't matter, 12 year olds can have kids. But the fact remains with out some better purpose your just kids playing with emotions, trying to make a grown-up game, a kids game..... no offense, fight for something, or find out your living for nothing..... and just so you know your personal journey to find a lover, is selfish...... something only kiddos feel.....