My best friend didnt tell me she had a bf and i found out by her ex bf..
2007-12-10 05:57:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Apparently, you're not as close of friends as you thought. Sorry you had to find out that way.
2007-12-10 06:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... that is a little strange, but there are so many reasons why she might have not told you. The only way to find out is to sit down and talk to her. Here are some of my first thoughts:
-she didn't think it was a big deal
-she wasn't sure herself what the relationship was all about and wanted to find out before she told you
-if you are single maybe she felt bad for you and thought she could somehow protect you from feeling sad, jealous, lonely
-she is ashamed/embarrassed about the guy she is dating or might think you wouldn't like him and was afraid to find out
-maybe you know the guy and she wanted to protect you
-she doesn't consider you a close friend anymore
-she is too wrapped up in the relationship to take the time to tell you
Just a few ideas. Just sit down and talk to her. Communication is super important in any relationship.
2007-12-10 17:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her. Maybe she does not think it was a big deal. Do you tell her about your BFs? If not, maybe she felt you did not want to talk about personal matters.
2007-12-10 14:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by B. D Mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a guy, maybe she was just keeping you around in case other things in her life did not pan out.
If you are a female, then she's just a fair-weather friend.
2007-12-10 14:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Slick98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't know how, or she was waiting to make sure she really liked her new boyfriend b4 she spread the word
2007-12-10 14:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mudchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't worry about it its okay just let it go ITS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL!
2007-12-10 14:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Brit Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was she supposed to tell you? maybe she didn't think you would care... ya'll are just friends afterall...
2007-12-10 14:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by DADDYSGAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋