She does not care about you....you are not important.....
place your self in her position....
If you did not care about someone, why would you call her?
2007-12-10 07:16:09
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answered by Sexy Cuban 2
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Unless she's the CEO of some big corporation or in a job where she's EXTREMELY busy all day, then I don't understand why she's being like this. I will say for some women work is a refuge....the one place where they have time for themselves and don't have to focus on the r'ship or you. That can be nice if you're with someone who is a bit clingy - and only you know if you fall into that category.
With that being said, I think when you're in love, you LONG to speak to that person even if it's just for a minute. I'm not working at the moment but when I was, I talked to my fiance about 3 or 4 times during the work day! I was a busy but we always spoke. We'd almost always go out for lunch with each other too. Or if we couldn't afford to eat out, he'd bring lunch to the little cafe area the building offered so we could still be together. To me, those are signs of real love. I'm not sure what's going on with your fiance. Perhaps she's feeling a bit smothered and cherishes her work time as her own. I know when I was working and before I met my now husband, I really enjoyed having my lunch hour to do MY things....to run errands or just shopping. When I met my husband, however, my lunch breaks quickly became about "us" and it was no longer "me" time which I must admit that I missed.
2007-12-10 07:19:04
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answered by Anonymous
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I think that is a little weird. For me and my Husband we always want to talk with each other. If we do not hear from one another some time during the day it kinda throws things off. But everyone is different. Maybe she is a little more independent. Thats not a bad thing but maybe she sees the day as her time and when she gets home your time. A Lot of people need there own time. Unless you think she is up to something I wouldnt take it personally just ask her to call you every now and then. Like I said she may just need the time to herself.
2007-12-10 07:17:32
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answered by Showers 2
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A lot of people have two personas-their "work person" and their "home person". Is your girlfriend a type A personality (Agressive, time-line oriented, organized)? Then she probably does a lot of compartmentalizing and needs that seperate space where her personal life isn't involved. This has nothing to do with you. Its just her personality.
Don't push her. There is nothing worse than being guilted into something and she will end up resenting you. Let it go. Does it really matter if you hear from her at lunch, as long as you get to see her face at the end of the day?
2007-12-10 07:18:05
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answered by Anonymous
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The reason he hasn't called you is because he hasn't left his bedroom at all this weekend and is banging every girl he meets. He doesn't have time to talk let alone eat because of all the sex he is having. He might have also flown out his ex girlfriend and you know...there is a headboard banging against a wall as we speak.... So it would be rude to disrupt him a this time...wait till Monday when he comes home and takes off from work for 2 days because he can't walk anymore due to his sexcapade. You can talk about your feelings then...just make sure to have an ice pack ready for him...
2016-05-22 21:38:59
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answered by ? 3
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I have been married for 17 years, and some days I call my husband at work, some days he calls me, and some days we don't talk to each other until he gets home. It's not a big deal. People get busy during the day. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Has she done anything to cause you not to trust her? If not, it sounds like you're being a little insecure.
2007-12-10 08:33:56
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answered by Tiss 6
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Why is it necessary for her to call you every day from her workplace? The woman uses her lunchbreak to relax and enjoy her lunch. She doesn't want to run up and down the stairs or call you from outside everyday either. You see this woman every evening, and all day on weekends. Allow her the privilege of going to work, without having another job to do for you! The truth is that you want to know where she is all of the time, because you're insecure and you think you might lose her while she's at work. That why you need all of these phone calls. You should be ashamed of yourself; first for putting her through this crap and second for lying about your real motive. Keep it up and she's going to get tired of your games. And that "Love of My Life" crap is phoney as what!
2007-12-10 08:21:08
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends... does she talk to you after work? maybe she wants to spend her lunch break talking to friends and be social in her place of work... that can be a very important part of her life and you should try not to interfere with it... its not unreasonable to ask for a call daily... but if your see each other at night, she may just feel that she needs more time with her friends...
I wouldn't take it personally at all... I think it more has to do with her wanting to be doing other things and rationalizing that she will see you that night...
I mean... think of it from her perspective... (i'm assuming you live together)... she sees you on a regular basis, every night... You talk alot and spend a lot of your time together... But she wants to have other friends too... As much as she probably loves you, she still needs friends of her own... So she tries to be social during work hours but you insist that she spend that time to call you also....
Either way, you two need to sit down and talk... find out exactly what her reason is... the only bad reason would be "I just don't want to talk to you that much"... but hopefully it more has to do with other things going on....
2007-12-10 07:20:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Think it is romantic of you to want to speak with her at least once during the day to make contact. My husband and I call each other a few times during the day and I love it and he does too. Just to hear his voice and hear him tell me that he loves me is enough to make my day. Your wife probably sees talking during the day as unnecessary and therefore cannot see why it is that you do. If this is the only pitfall she shows in the relationship then I would advise you to let it go or see if she would be willing to compromise. You might have to be the only one to call, but at least it gives you a chance to speak with her.
2007-12-10 07:40:31
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answered by pictureshygirl 7
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if she has a high power job then it is hectic in the office. she's already juggling her job and you give her a break. sometimes you just don't have the time at work to be calling back right away. if you text each other and you dont get a response right away, she may not have seen it, or has taken a split second to read it but can't take the time to respond right away because she has to do her job
and don't make her choose between her job and you because 1) she has to put food on her table and 2) wouldn't you rather be talking to her when she's not at work and has time to devote to you and just you?
2007-12-10 07:19:28
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answered by djackal1 2
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I don't think you're being unreasonable... I like for my fiance to call me during the day as well. Is there any reason you can't call her? Are you sure to keep the conversations brief so she still has time to eat her lunch, or get back to her desk if she goes outside to call you? She may feel like you are trying to be controlling, even if that is not what you are doing. She may be like my fiance and just really prefer to not talk on the phone.
I would be somewhat concerned about her not wanting to talk to you during the day, myself. Try to talk to her, see if there is a real reason other than the excuses she usually gives
2007-12-10 07:18:55
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answered by Kitten Toes 4
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