is this normal?? am i a bad person??

Question

Me and this girl went our seperate ways, she wasnt ready for anything too serious and i couldnt wait any longer. I miss her terribly but at the end of the day, she said it will be best if we stay friends because she isnt ready for anything and altho she really likes me she doesnt want to mess me around. Im sorta coming to terms that im not going to be with her, but we hardly speak and im not sure we ever will, i cant drive myself to speak to her because we are no longer more than friends and i cant think of anything to say on the friends basis. Its almost teasing me in the way that we are just friends.
Im not a selfish person, but im struggling to make any effort for us to be friends.
Is it normal to feel like this? the only way i can see her in my life is if we were together, but if i cant be with her then i cant see her in my life at all. im a 19 yr old lad, and it feels like shes missing.

Answer 1

aww, you are not a bad person! You just miss her so much and love her too much! don't worry, you and her can talk things out.

-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*

Answer 2

Nah, you're normal, unfortunatly. No, kidding. It's normal to miss someone alot. I say you make the best out of the situation and make her feel more comfortable with you. In the end of all of your hard work, she'd be willing to be more than just friends because she knows you more, and is more comfortable. Just be more around her, no matter how hard and more and more, you'll see her more in your life. As a friend. As a lover.
Good luck

Answer 3

Let her go, do your own thing, then maybe later you two can be friends. Sounds like it is just too soon for you two to try to be friends.

Answer 4

you are definetley not a bad person!!!
you love her.. you miss her.. its normal to want her.

everything will work out. just give it time.

Answer 5

You're evilll