ARE you always have to be the one to initiate the conversation or aim, message of whatever it is with a friend---If you are the one who waits, why do you?... Does that mean they are not your *true friend?..OR does it mean that those friends are the ones who expect others to make the move first?..*passive friends or lazy?...Most of my friends are like this, it's a miracle when they do initiate the conversation first , it's **getting kind of old** I mean they do reply and we ENJOY our talk, but why is it that I usually or always have to initiate it?...
Whats your thought on this?....
* I think asking them why why they don't go first for once, would start WW III -lol, or just that it shouldn't matter, as long as we're friends.
2007-12-10 10:41:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Many persons in this world have bloated ego and a false notion of ego.They will not initiate conversation with the fear that such move may lower their image in other's eyes.I have controlled my ego with great practice and therefore, remain normal all the time and start talking with anyone without hesitation.I just do not care what any one will think of me.I find this attitude makes my life simple and saves me from lots of complications.
2007-12-11 03:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are just more of a listener then a talker...
& talk when someone talks to them...
I know how it is though, it's annoying...& pretty boring too...
I would meet new friends who are more at your level.
2007-12-10 18:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Savanna A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋