Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

Orlando Bloom or Zac Efron?

Orlando Bloom is the hottest man alive I think.... :)

2007-12-10 12:07:59 · 7 answers · asked by soccerbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

the first boyfriend, first intimate person, the first person falling for.

2007-12-10 12:07:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have liked this guy for about 5 months now and everyone says i should get over him. but i can't. does that mean that i might have a chance or am i just waisting my time? sometimes i think he gives me these little hints that he might like me but then i realize he treats almost every girl like that and i always get so confussed. and apparently he liked me the first couple of weeks we met. should i get over him or should i stick with this guy? SOS!!!

2007-12-10 12:07:37 · 10 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy and I like him a lot.. I like him like him too but I don't know if he's into relationships. how should I ask him if he wants to bang or something? I think he likes me too.. advice??

2007-12-10 12:07:15 · 19 answers · asked by Josie S 2 in Singles & Dating

Its kinda 2 simple questions in one....

do you like it when girls play hard to get? what can a girl do to come across as hard to get?

If a girl makes out with you on the second day of knowing you...what would be your impression of her?

2007-12-10 12:07:08 · 5 answers · asked by la_la_love 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 12:07:06 · 11 answers · asked by SNPUC2 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he wont talk to me

2007-12-10 12:07:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I really like this girl and she's about my age.(I'm 14 Freshmen). I'm kinda friends with her, I talk with her when I see her sometimes, (at like church retreats or something, and she doesnt go to my school). I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure if it is the right time to do it, cuz I'm not sure if she has a bf or not. I'm not sure how to ask her out, or start a good conversation going to strengthen our friendship. Also I know a lot of people say "be yourself" but I dont really get what that means. SOMEBODY HELP!!!!!!

2007-12-10 12:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, there is 11 year gap between me and my gf (I'm 23 and she is 34). She says she loves me and we have been together for 6 months. We are always pretty honest with each other and she said that she doesnt see herself sticking to this relationship because of the age difference. Shes just not comfortable with it but doesnt want to loose me anyway because she tried so hard not to fall for me but couldnt help it. It also was a problem when we first got together. Took me over two months to get with her initially because of the age difference issue. And now breaking up with me would break her heart as much as mine but, would probably still happen. What should I do? I said I will stay and make her love me so much she wont be able to leave (thats what she initially fell for, my ambition and determination). But, I am wondering if I should just leave and make the ineviable heart break a bit easier.
P.S I have no trouble with the relationship evolving into things much more than what they are

2007-12-10 12:06:37 · 16 answers · asked by Gord 2 in Singles & Dating

I went on a first date and things were going perfectly. We had a nice dinner, saw the Golden Compass (it was okay), went for coffee at night and then we went back to my place where we were going to have sex. He started licking me down there and when I was orgasming, I farted in his mouth. We was pissed and he left and I haven't heard from him in a few days.

How can I get him to like me again?

2007-12-10 12:06:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend talk about everything, our past, present and future..thats the kinda relationship we have. we have even discussed past sexual partners, and up untill recently its been fine..but yesterday he completley violated my trust...in front of my MOTHER he decided to tell her that in the past i slept with one of my co-worker...(who i had to get a restraining order against) when i decided to break things off. He even expressed how (dumb) that he thought my actions were, althought he himself has engaged in an work-relationship that ended badly too! i would have never put his intimate business out in front of his mother!! and when i told him how i felt: he said that i will get over it...i feel like i cant trust him anymore, out of all people, why my MOTHER. i will never forget the look on my moms face, how should i handle this i really love my boyfriend but this is really bothering me plzzzzzzz help!!!!!

2007-12-10 12:05:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 12:03:58 · 7 answers · asked by glassesguru 5 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl in my math class. i sit next to her friend. when she talks to her friend, she always chooses the side of the desk near me and sticks her @ss out so its touching my desk. this happens on a daily basis now. what does this mean? is she trying to tell me something? do you think she is even aware she is doing this? i check her out but i am discreet

2007-12-10 12:03:41 · 6 answers · asked by Arthur M 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and he is 22. We got together yesterday, well through the internet. He showed me his photo, and i showed him mine. He is a christian, and i'm a christian, so we have the same faith.. He is a little bit big size, and so am i. The thing is that he is a magician, who also cooks and bakes and write songs. But actually i like studying. Haha. So it's completely different worlds altogether. I've never ever tried physical contact before with the opposite sex, etc... I dont want to have sex with him though, wait till marriage first ;) But well i guess i can do the best i can... What do you think??

2007-12-10 12:02:08 · 16 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3 in Singles & Dating

She is a Jr. and not doing well in school at all. [5's] We have always talked to our children about the importance of their education. I consider our family pretty close, and very open to what ever comes our way. Most of our family and her friends thinks she's just a BRAT!!!! We do discipline her, but then she rebels even more. A few nights ago she called me a f------ b----
because we would not allow her to drive, and it was over the weekend, which mad her very mad. We reminded her about our agreement, and we were not changing anything. She has a very pissy additude about everything unless she gets what she wants all the time. My husband, and I are considering a girls home or boot camp. Which she tells us all the time to do her a favor, and get rid of her all the time. She thinks she has it terrible here, but yet no one else see's what she does, but a BRAT!! that don't appreciate anything. To let you know we have 4 children, and only 2 left at home. {Girls that are complete oppisite}

2007-12-10 12:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really need it...

2007-12-10 12:01:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-10 12:01:20 · 15 answers · asked by ss 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is...I hate to say it but UNABLE to get me to come. I don't know what it is but I've been able to without any problems with ex's. But, we've tried TWICE and still nothing...this is very frustrating...WE ALL HAVE NEEDS!

2007-12-10 12:01:03 · 3 answers · asked by Miranda M. 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi guys. Let's say you're a happy, sexually active man, then for some reason you are without sex for over 2 months. Please describe the new sexless you. Be honest..would you be mean to other people because of frustration?

2007-12-10 11:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by karly 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm sooo lost. Everytime someone asks me what i want to do when i get older i have NO clue. my bestfriend (that moved an hour away a while ago, we are still bff tho =). and like she seems to think that after school we're gonna move to BC to get this thing, and then go to California, and do some school there, and then we're gonna be fashion designer or w.e. Okay, so the question what type of career shoudl i persue? I want something that has to do with animals, and nature and forests and stuff. But i don't want to be a vet i can't stand to stick needles in animals. My dad has wanted to be a forest ranger but he couldn't because he couldn't stay away for 2 yrs. I want some sort of career that doesn' have me sittin' at a desk all day, but will allow me to go outside, and someday hopefully give me enough leeway so when i do decide to ahve kids, my work wont interfere with it (i know i'm thinking ahead alot, but hey i can't help it) i can't think of a career i would like to persue. help pl

2007-12-10 11:59:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are finally going to have sex, and I was wondering how bad it hurts the first time. I'm pretty sure my hymen is broken, does that mean it will hurt less? I'm so scared, and I have no idea why. I really want to do this, and I'm ready emotionally, I'm just scared that it will hurt. Any suggestions or anything? How bad did it hurt you?

2007-12-10 11:59:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to surprise my boyfriend by doing something for him totally unexpected that is inexpensive for no reason at all besides the fact that I love him. He's pretty romantic so I'm sure he'll appreciate almost anything but I'm running low on ideas. Ladies and Men please help me!

2007-12-10 11:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well ihave an ex about a year ago & we are pretty cool friends.he has a girlfriend.but i want him back after i broke up w/ him.i never wanted to break up with himbut my friend made me...

2007-12-10 11:59:02 · 5 answers · asked by Ms.Soviet 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 11:57:51 · 5 answers · asked by Alexa 2 in Singles & Dating

so i like the guy, i asked him out... and he said no!
because he stil liked this girl! (he doesnt now)

but then my friend talked 2 him, and told him he should have gave me a chance, like 4 a week! but he said NO I DONT WUNT TO HURT HER....... idk wut that means...?

ive been talking 2 him online, and he seems 2 be intrestid, or sump thing?!
idk, does he care about me?

2007-12-10 11:56:51 · 11 answers · asked by Shaye. 5 in Singles & Dating

they think i have totally changed but i didnt
all i changed is my age i am now 13
and they constently make me cry and somethins i dont even now why
they tell me that the love me but i douht it
and a cuple month ago
i cried like crazy becuse of something they did
i couldnt stop they couldnt calm me down
i mean i just let it out i tryied to stop but i couldnt i mean the tears came out but i had a diffrent feeling
and now i think my dad lost my dog on purpoes
and i loved that dog with all my life
how can i ever find him
i miss him already and he just now got lost
im crying right now
PLZ PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-10 11:56:46 · 3 answers · asked by lalala_mimi 2 in Family

I have a really hard time controlling my c*m. I explode a mere 30 seconds or so after penetration. How can I make this last longer? I've heard stories of guys going for 2+ hours without exploding. How can I do that?

2007-12-10 11:56:18 · 18 answers · asked by Avatar of Hypnos 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. I live with and am engaged to a man who is driving me crazy. He makes our lives a real roller coaster ride. He is always getting mad about situations involving money issues and also my 2 gradeschool age children, my family and my ex-husband (who I went through a child custody case with and rarely even speak to). I will be giving up a lot in terms of lifestyle for my kids by leaving, but he is very controlling and making my life extremely stressful. I'm scared though, and I don't know if I can make it on my own financially. Also, what would more changes mean for my children? When I talk about leaving, he gets really angry because I didn't try to work things out and tells me that he hates me, I am selfish etc. I have tried. I am currently in counseling (therapist said there is not much hope) and tried antidepressants. I am very easy going. It seems that he gets angry over everything. I consider myself to be a very nice, attractive person. Help!

2007-12-10 11:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by Carla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend is a guy, and i have kinda liked him for quiet some time. the only problem is, he has the same name as my ex who i broke up with a month ago. i really loved my ex, and they have the same name. Derek. i call my best friend dj cause it was to awkward. now, im afraid to tell him because it will still be so awkward. i really like him though. i know he likes me too, but he's going to colege next year. im two years younger than him. how do i tell him this? should i just keep my mouth shut?

2007-12-10 11:55:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 11:55:06 · 26 answers · asked by katie 2 in Singles & Dating