I'm 15 and he is 22. We got together yesterday, well through the internet. He showed me his photo, and i showed him mine. He is a christian, and i'm a christian, so we have the same faith.. He is a little bit big size, and so am i. The thing is that he is a magician, who also cooks and bakes and write songs. But actually i like studying. Haha. So it's completely different worlds altogether. I've never ever tried physical contact before with the opposite sex, etc... I dont want to have sex with him though, wait till marriage first ;) But well i guess i can do the best i can... What do you think??
2007-12-10 12:02:08 · 16 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wont go to his house alone, can??
Surely he cant rape me..
:(
2007-12-10 12:07:43 · update #1
it's his real picture, not a fake one.
he even told me to go to his cell group...
2007-12-10 12:08:55 · update #2
Hun.. I'd stick to someone your own age being 15.. You need to experience the whole dating scene before you start out with a guy that much older...
Good luck!
And he might me Mike the mlester who is really 56.
Dont do it!
EDIT*****
It doesnt matter if you go with another 15 year old girl.
It isn't safe. And isn't worth. Don't risk yourself for something so stupid. That's what you are doing by playing on the internet meeting people. You are risking yourself, your life, your morals, and a lot more.
Your just a lil innocent girl who is trying to meet someone and stuff. Stick with people at school. Boys your age at the mall.
Hope u think about it.
EDIT AGAIN___
That doesn't mean its truly him. There are so many ways people can con lil girls..
Even if its him it doesnt mean he wont do anything to you.
Im a 23 year old guy and I wouldnt date a 15 year old girl for MANY different reasons. But my mind is in the right spot.. im not out here to try to get lil girls to do things with me...
2007-12-10 12:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hon..are you serious?
You're too young for him....plus..don't trust anything anyone says on the internet..
He may just be trying to draw you in with a fake picture..fake age..and telling you he shares your same belief..
He may be a 50 year old pedophile..
Find someone closer to your own age..
And my biggest advice..if he ever says that he wants to meet you...please don't go..please..
EDIT:
He doesn't have to rape you at his house..he could rape you anywhere..a bathroom stall..an alleyway..a dark corridor with people passing nearby..
This is not paranoia..I'm just trying to let you know that bad things happen with the most innocent of intentions..
It's cool if you want to just talk online..but remember..not many 22 year olds want to hang out or find anything in common with a 15 year old..Honestly.
2007-12-10 20:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe love knows age, but you just met. I would talk to this man for over a year before you even consider relationships, especially since it's through the internet. Don't rush into anything.
Keep in mind there are possibilities of this man being a sexual predator.
2007-12-10 22:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by cavylover90 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's not a good idea, he is way too old for you and may have differnet expectations with a person your age, haven't you seen that dateline show how to track a preditor. i can tell you im christian just to make you like me but on the other hand maybe im a phsyco person, you never know what's online and i dont think you should have anything to do with this guy, you'd better be careful.
2007-12-10 20:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by PriNceSs_KeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is illegal for you to date him and he could get in very serious trouble for it. I suggest that you stay clear of this situation until you turn 18. He may tell you he is a cristian and that he wants to wait for sex until he is married but I have a hard time beleving that a 22 year old man wants to date a 15 year old girl for innocent reasons.
2007-12-10 20:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Fire's Shaddow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is just a phase. You're way too young to know what you want or even be thinking of anything physical with this guy especially after knowing him for a day. You cant trust anyone these days.
2007-12-10 20:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Laila S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just meet him yesterday why dont you give it time and get to know each other first before you make a decision. To be honest its rather concerning that hes so much older than you i feel like he can pressure you into doing something you are not comfortable with or ready for
2007-12-10 20:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not hold my breath on this one. internet ralationships are very risky and the likelyhood of them working out if slim. ALso another strike against this one is your age difference. You both are in completely different places in life. You have so much ahead of you still. Most of highschool and all of college. come on wake up he is 7 years older then you. find someone who shares your interests.
2007-12-10 20:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
child, you are getting in to waaay difficult teritorry. life experiences..... well heres the thing, if you are willing to tell your parents about it and they wont freak, then its a... decent idea. But he does have alot over you. Be friends if you want to... but be certain that it doesnt go any farther than that. You are going to get hurt in so many ways. I mean, lets look at his freind group, who goes to bars or has house parties. And lets look at your friends, well when I was your age I was dancing around in my underwear singing into my hairbrush and just learning life experiences. caaareful child, CAREFUL
2007-12-10 20:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by adventurea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that this is a good idea, but if your going to date him, please be careful, you seem to have a good head on your shoulder, so think wisely...how much could someone 22 really have in common with a 15 yr old?
2007-12-10 20:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋