I've known this guy for 4 yrs. Him and I always had crushes on each other... but, I had a boyfriend (ps... crush lives about 230 miles away from me). I'm no longer with my boyfriend, and I just found out this guy (crush) has had an off/on girlfriend for the entire time we've known each other. He tells me he likes me a lot and even knows and likes my daughter (I had with my ex). These past couple months we've been talking/txtng a lot and have grown close to one another. I recently recieved a call from his FIANCE' (that's what she said) ... and she questioned our (crush and i's) relationship: asked me how i knew him... have we ever "hooked up", and just tons of questions. - i told him about the call i received, and what was said over the conversation- and asked if they were really engaged. He said no- that she's his girlfriend off and on for 4 yrs. -- they don't even live together=
so.. my question is... what should i do? or tell him? i like him-
2007-12-10 12:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by austin t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about this.Is over for you.Get another one,.
2007-12-10 13:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him how you feel. I had this exact same thing happen to me - I nearly fell over when she told me they were engaged! It was a good couple of years before I decided to take him to task over that phonecall & it turned out the girl was a little loopy!! They were never engaged & everything she'd said to me was misinformation...
Talk to him some more & tell him how you feel - if you leave it it might be too late. Good luck.
2007-12-10 20:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a cheater in the making to me. If she was not his serious gf he would have introduced her to you a while ago.
2007-12-10 20:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, luck to you! since he likes you back, push that "on and off" girlfriend out of the way and take him for youself!
2007-12-10 20:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
same happened me, sorry 2 say dis but he want's best of both world's. he'll end up hurtin u, so is he worth it---- i got very hurt.
2007-12-10 20:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by susie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
AND GO FOR IT TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE!!
2007-12-10 20:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋