27yrs old and stress out?

Question

hello everyone ,im presently unemployed,the store close down, and i havent been able to find any as yet, and my boyfriend of 7 yrs told me not to worry about it ,and he has been paying my bills ever since ,but im still looking,i een give up,so now lately he was coming in me ,and i ask him one night if he knew the out come this colud lead into, he said yes ,i could get pregnant ,so i said ok ,then he said he was trying long time so how come im not pregnant as yet ,so i said these things take time,so here i am thinking this man want a baby ,so i was like lord you have to help me give this man a child ,and couple weeks after that i found out i was 5 weeks pregnant , i was so happyi couldnt wait to tell my boyffiend ,but when i told him he was like we cant afford a baby ,you have to get an abortion,now im so stress out because i dont want a abortion and this is my first child ,i feel that god bless me with one why should i kill it,you think he is right or wrong,or what should i do

Answer 1

Do NOT have an abortion. You can put the baby up for adoption if you cannot afford it! There are SO MANY COUPLES who long to have a child and are unable to do so. To give a baby up for adoption is the most generous, self-less thing you can do.

Watch "Adoption Stories" on the Discovery Health channel and see what a difference you can make in someone else's lives. Think about it, ask your family to help you through, whichever way you decide to go (keep it or give it up, not abortion) and start planning now. There are places that can help you and they can also assist you with medical and living expenses during your pregnancy. If you keep stressing out too much, you may lose the baby or harm the baby or yourself. Best of luck sweetie! Of course the decision yo make is YOURS and YOURS alone - YOU have to live with it. I hope you choose life!

ymmf

Answer 2

Wow, i guess you can't trust a man word that's why I am careful with my word because it will come back and hunt me down later. No don't get an abortion, first of all it's not like you're a teenager who has kid for no reason, you're 27 you can feed yourself think for yourself and make decision that can affect you the rest of your life. Tell him that it might be tough the first year but thing will change because if you get an abortion now you might regret it later when looking at someone else child, you might think that if you didn't get an abortion your child might be the same age as the kid you are looking at, it's rough time but there is up and down in life. Don't stress out because it's not healthy and might lead you to turn to alcohol beverage which is not good either. Relax, talk to him, and try to convince him because sometime a problem might not be permanent they are just temporary. As soon as your child hits 1 or 2 years old they can listen and then you can go find a job. You can always ask your parent to take care of the child for you while you work because they might have more experience with children =) Good luck and please don't try to find a permanent solution to a temporary problems. God Bless.

Answer 3

At one point as I read your piece, I was thinking how great your boyfriend was and how what you guys had was the real thing.Then you dropped your bombshell.Since this is a public forum, I can not put into words how and what I currently think of the vermin who was once your knight. However, I sympathize with your dilemma now;and why you are stressed at this point in your life. As difficult as it may seem, you can keep the child and have your erstwhile boyfriend help care for it(though that will keep you tied to him for ever).You prayed to have this baby; hence ,the same Lord who answered your original prayers will now provide the means of support for it. Plus, I am positive you will soon find a new line of employment that will also allow you to get everything you want and/or desire.Keep the faith and keep us posted on how you are doing. You are a very special woman and I mean that from the heart. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

You are right , don`t have an abortion, that baby is a gift from the Lord , and you both ask for it, but then when it is there before your eyes , suddenly , you don`t need it anymore. If you refuse the gift somebody gives you, what would be the giver feels? disappointed , and frustrated isn`t it? Then that person would not trust you anymore, and the one you turn and asked is the Lord , how come you refuse a gift from Him ?
Supposedly , you abort it , your life would never be the same again , it would be very difficult , to return to a normal life . Why don`t you just accept it , and accept from your heart , that you wanted it so badly before and so is now .God Bless!

Answer 5

OMG! I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this. I'll resist the urge to bash your boyfriend or reprimand you for poor choices. That won't be helpful. If the two of you are spiritual at all, perhaps you can talk to your pastor or a trusted, mature friend. A counselor would be monumentally helpful...perhaps the two of you could speak with someone from planned parenthood. Seven years is quite a long relationship. Don't make any rash decisions yet. Do some research, involve your boyfriend in the research. Ultimately, it's your decision to make. If he loves you, he'll stick by your decision, even if it means difficult times.

Answer 6

IF u believed the lord blessed u with a child, then u should keep it. The lord will provide for u and the child. Baby's don't need too many things in their young lives just yet. They don't care what the other babies are wearing. THey just need food, clothing, doctors visits, parental love...all the essentials. God knew what he was doing when he gave u the child...so trust in him. HE gives us what we have...so trust he'll give u the means to have and raise this child. Good luck.

Answer 7

He an A**Hole! He is messed up if he was trying to get you pregnant only to say this afterwards.

Keep the kid and ditch him. You'r eonly five weeks. You can find another job. Plus you can always hop on the unemjoyment (employment) line.

Ultimatley do what you feel is best abortion or not...it's your body!

Answer 8

no, if YOU want to have a bay, have a baby. This is your choice. You make your own decisions with your body. Its not right for him to have you stressed out anyways. You need to talk to him only one more time because he is only your boyfriend. He needs to marry you and then make decisions.

Answer 9

Oh my! Well, he came inside you when you clearly asked him not to, so tell him get ready daddy, baby coming!!!

You know what to do.....

Answer 10

u should leave that jerk of a boyfriend of yours and keep your baby.. its a major sin to get abortion.. so please keep your baby!! here my email address if u want to get to know a great guy!! [e-mail]