Ok so, I'm the only person out of all of my friends that has never had a boyfriend. Or anything close, for that matter. I know I'm not the prettiest girl in school, but I do have some traits that some girls say are nice. I have nice eyes and pretty hair. But I am not skinny, and I am really cautious (I have had 3 knee surgeries). Also, I am very sarcastic, and sensitive. What do you think could get guys to notice me, for reasons other than that I can help with homework? And really, if looks don't matter, why have guys said they don't like me because I am ugly? I'd absolutly love some advice! Or just your own thoughts on this.
2007-12-10 12:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks don't matter...for long term relationships. The problem is, looks are the things that attract the attention of guys. The majority of relationships with looks don't last long anyway (unless they get lucky and get both looks and personality).
From what you described, however, I am very surprised that you do not have a boyfriend. Those seem like nice traits. Don't worry, I'm sure that while you "suffer" now, you'll find a guy who's perfect for you. Instead of going through like 10 boyfriends, maybe you'll stick with the first or second.
2007-12-10 12:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by niiro13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah looks honestly do not matter at all. It's easy to say but not as easy to do. Granted that you are still in high school, I would say not to worry too much on this. You'll be hard-pressed to find many guys that aren't into the just looks part at this age. So you may not have many boyfriends but if you're lucky enough to find one you can stay with, I'd say that is the best thing of all.
But some real advice I can give you is just be yourself and be outgoing. Just talk to guys, use that fact that you are sarcastic because girls with a good sense of humor is attractive. Just give it time, make yourself presentable and play the hard to get while you're at it. Good luck.
2007-12-10 20:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If girls say your traits are nice I wouldn't listen (if guys did, then maybe...)
3 knee surgeries (why?); I doubt you being cautious about knees matters.
Not skinny? What exactly does this mean? your not super skinny, or your fat? (not trying to be harsh)
Well, your friends obviously look better than you if they are noticed over you all the time. (maybe hang out with some other people?)
If they have told you that you are ugly and they haven't done anything with you at all, then they probably mean it.
I could probably give a better answer that doesn't seem so harsh if I knew more.
Take it easy, don't let it bother you.
2007-12-10 20:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by PrisonerOfTime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's not about looks. They are semi important as guys aren't attracted to anyone who is extremely unattractive, but most girls, guys find attractive. The guys who said they don't like you because you are ugly are a bunch of stupid shallow jerks who will end up dateless and alone as the barbie girls they crave don't exist, and even if they did, these girls wouldn't be interested in them. You just have to 1 find the right guy and 2 Not be too afraid to put it out there and flirt a little with guys you like.
2007-12-10 20:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if u want a serious relationship u shouldnt base it off of how you look. if that is all u r thinking about in a relationship its not going to last that long in the first place...
just relax enjoy the single life.
and if you do have a boy in mind why dont u make da first move...
2007-12-10 20:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur insecure about urself den u should get a makeover off ur m8s n where sumthing a bit more revealing, flaunt ur stuff babe.....but nt too much lol. if a decent guy cums a knokin, dn't b afraid to talk to him, be confident and try 2 kill dat "scarcastic" tendency x......ps display a pic so i cn giv u my opinion
2007-12-10 20:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People some times are stupid. Don't pay attention to some comments from other students.Just be happy and live your life.The rest, is bull.
2007-12-10 20:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...
they say your ugly because you might be ugly?
they say your cute because they are girls
they say they hate sarcastic and sensitive girls
it all depends..on who they like,
probaly you can talk/listen/hw/help/talk/laugh
yep
it all depends(top part was jus blah.)
good luk ';]
2007-12-10 20:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by 169786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, --what?,-- you're over-weight, unattractive and "very sarcastic".
I don't see why any guy wouldn't love to have you.
2007-12-10 20:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Clueless Dick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋