2007-12-10 12:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by marissas aunt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gotta weigh in on this. Sex is amazing! One of God's most incredible creations!
One of the great things about it, is that like walking, when you start, you aren't very good at it, but it's still cool.
It is unfortunate that I know this, but whenever you have sex with a new person, it is like learning to walk all over again - because each person is so unique in how they are made, and what they like.
But I am fortunate to know this - after 20 years of marriage (ok, 19 and a half), sex never gets boring with the same person! Things change, you try new things, you develop as a person and in your ability to discuss things, relationships change - it's new every day! Each time is a new creation and expression of your time together, built on everything you have done before.
It's less important to know how to make love, and more important to think about who you are having sex with, and why. Choose wisely - in spite of birth control, it is still unwise to have sex if you are unprepared to be a parent. If you want to enjoy a healthy, wonderful, regret-free sex life when you are married, it is better to always make the choice that will leave you without regrets. Personally, I didn't. Neither did he. Even though we don't have to worry about diseases, there is still a part of me that wishes we didn't have to.
2007-12-10 12:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i kow your probley not up for somebody elses opinoin, so Im not going to give you any. But I think that when you do it, you will know what to do...if you are a guy, touch her lightly, and rub her, and just br close to her. And if your a girl... let the guy play with you, and you play with him, be in control ride him like he is a horse and you need to get somewhere fast. lol..
2007-12-10 12:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This poster is a Sophmore in high school. Giving sex tips to her is probably not a great plan.
2007-12-10 14:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by wcowell2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know, sex is natural. However if you have to ask this question you are no where ready to have sex so just wait.
2007-12-10 12:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, its a matter of practice mostly. You wont be that good your first time thats just life. You will get in a natural rythem with your partner. You just have to relax and go with it, being tense is the biggest problem at first.
2007-12-10 12:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Fire's Shaddow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Primal. Instinct.
Trust me, when you're ready, your body seriously just knows what to do.
Sex is bizarre, but amazing.
Don't worry about it. Awkward sex isn't THAT bad either :P
2007-12-10 12:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by UnfeelingSinner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard oyu bascially know by instinct but you'll typically know what to do when your around maybe 10 years old form people or the media.
2007-12-10 12:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rick F 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
easy dont, just stick it in...assuming your a guy....if you think about sex while having sex, you have a tendency to not enjoy it as much, if your a guy, you start loosing it.....women should just be the follower and enjoy
2007-12-10 12:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by laxitivepo 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i wanted to know the same thing, so i gave u a star =] hehe
2007-12-10 12:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it just comes to you.
2007-12-10 12:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋