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My husband of 10 years used to work with my cousin's husband. A few days ago she called me and told me that there were rumors circulating around the workplace that my husband was having an affair with one of his former coworkers while he still worked there. She said that her husband heard people saying that they went out to long lunches together and that he picked her up after work once. He was never secretive about having lunch with her and he often had lunch at home. Lunch between friends isn't really a reason to be suspicious, but now I'm wondering if he was "hiding out in the open." This women does have a reputation for promiscuity according to both of our husbands (mentioned independantly from this instance) and niether one of the accused were present during this rumorfest. My husband says they were just friends and that he has hardly spoken to her since he quit. No one said they witnessed any physical intamacy, but they did suspect more than friendship. Gossip or truth?

2007-12-10 13:43:39 · 6 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

6 answers

75% true

2007-12-10 13:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by broken heart 2 · 0 0

I didn't believe the rumors either about my husband when i was told about him and a co-worker. One year later i fount out that not only was it true but it had been going on for over three years. If there was something going on with your husband and another co-worker you better believe that all the workers there knew about it and seen how they were acting towards each other. It doesn't take a genius to see something is going on between two people. You just don't want to believe your husband would do that to you, not only would he do that, he did and deep down you know he did. All you need to do is think back to when it happened was he acting different towards you ,was he working late or early . How about sex was he having less sex with you or sometimes the husband wants more sex with the wife when he is having an affair .You will never find out through your husband what he did. This is something you will never forget and you will always worry about the other female co-workers he is working around now. You should talk to him and tell him how much you are bothered by the rumors that you heard. 95% of office humors are true.

2007-12-10 14:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0 0

It is gossip that is probably the truth. Most of gossip is the truth but can be turned around alot. Something about it is the truth

2007-12-10 13:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nae 3 · 0 0

well i heard that jenny is having an affair with billy and bobby is gay and tommy likes to have his*** tickled while his wife is **** him and sally kissed a girl at the christmas party.

go talk DIRECTLY to your husband. ask him point blank. pay attention to your intuition

live your life not someone elses.

2007-12-10 13:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by charlton_g_w 4 · 2 0

well if your husband was upfront with you about going to lunch with her.. why would he lie about anything else.. dont look for trouble where none is.. now if he lied about being with her that would show his quilt

2007-12-10 14:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by vis 7 · 0 0

7.5% true

2007-12-10 13:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by joe d 3 · 0 0

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