Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

clothes interspersed everywhere, kitchen utensils are lying, cupboards are total mess, bed in never in good shape. all kind of stuff lying here and there. i keep cleaning it and my wife and kid keep spoiling it again.
i have told my dumb wife so many times , but it seems she has a very thick skin and i lack a clean environment in my room . It is all leading me to depression. i m not a cleaniness maniac but atleast the environment should be good in the room.
She has all the infrastructure to keep stuff but she is lackadascial and lathargic.
i m tired, what should i do

2007-12-10 16:03:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I emailed my ex bf and he still hasn't replied, it has been almost 2 weeks now, and no, he is not busy, he has been adding mutual friends of ours on facebook, so I know he has been on the net.

PS: We have both not requested each other on facebook.
I broke it off with him, then asked him if he wanted to try again a week after breaking up to which he said no.

Additional Details
I am over him. I just want to keep him as a friend, he is facing some tough times, and I am genuinely worried, not in a romantic sense, I have moved on, but still care for him, and have known him a long time.

2007-12-10 16:03:31 · 5 answers · asked by grapes 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I was briefly married to this idiot and and we had a daughter together. We got divorced when she was 9 months old. Now, she is 6. She was born premature and had respitory distress at birth. My new husband and I don't smoke, but when she goes to my ex's home, they do. He is remarried as well and has a baby due at the end of the month...and she is still smoking . I have told them both not to smoke when my daughter is there and of course they tell me they won't but they always do. Another thing is that here, she has her own rook and a full sized 4 poster bed. There, she sleeps on a matress on the floor. It's awful! We have lawyers that go back and forth, we even have a "guardian ad litem" who is a court appointed attorney that is supposed to respresent our daughter's best interest. She has never even talked to my child. she talks to me and my ex. she also thinks that his house is a fine place for my daughter to be. what can i do about this?

2007-12-10 16:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by Cha togar m'fhearg gun diola 4 in Marriage & Divorce

she replies back my msg's sweetly too,like "ur da sweetest guy"u would always be in my hard,but i kinda feel weird sometimes,am i lyk buggin her,and how shall i suppose to noe if she likes me,pls ans

2007-12-10 16:02:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and you dont want to be friends because theres no point, what do you say to her?

2007-12-10 16:00:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy in my class. And he's making me do all his homework for him cuz he doesn't know how or something. BUt I don't mind I think but then it gets awkward when i try talking to him. How to fix this?

2007-12-10 15:57:25 · 28 answers · asked by emptyspacesppk 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 15:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by JoAnn J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, to start with me and lets call him jake anyways i found out last year that jake liked me then when i started talking to him he asked me out although i had to say no even though i liked him alot. he happens to be one of my friends brothers one night when i spent the night he came in after his sis fell asleep and was like i like you so much would you believe me if i kissed you but i just couldn't later he just wouldnt talk but thne a few weeks ago we hung out and played bball when he asked me to come with him to his house for a movie i told him i had to get home laster that day he blocked me on myspace then maybe last week i saw him (didnt talk) but he was smiling when his mom was talking to me then the next day he was adding me back on myspace now, i asked him just if he wanted to hang out or sumthing and he wont answer what is up with this boy? do you think he still likes me or did i screw it up?

2007-12-10 15:55:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your son or daughter went off to college in another state?

I cried for 3 days when we left our son. lol I can't believe it's now been 3 yrs.....it seems like just yesterday.

2007-12-10 15:53:07 · 3 answers · asked by sugarbee 7 in Family

2007-12-10 15:51:52 · 25 answers · asked by 1girlwho 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a 15 year old girl and i have been going out with a 13 year old guy for about 3 months. my parents say that it is bad and i should go out with someone who is also 15. but some of my friends it is ok. is it right to be doin this?? coz he also says he loves me a lot.

2007-12-10 15:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think i no my bf loves me,even though hes cheated on me sevral times i have forgiven him.i just wanna know would u guys cheat on your girls even if you loved them, like just 4 the sex and knowing they wouldnt find out so it wouldnt hurt them?

2007-12-10 15:50:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 15:50:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although men tell me I'm pretty ...they complain about the way I dress ...not sexy enough I guess...

I don't feel like getting dressed up .I dress very plain - jeans and a shirt most of the time.

And I think they take it as - She doesn't want to dress up for me and lose interest

Is the way a girl dresses THAT important ? I'm just not into fashion.

2007-12-10 15:50:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my gifts for my boyfriend this year, is a pillow I'm making in sewing class, very girly with lace trim, purple bows, the cutest turtle fabric, after his favorite animal, and our names embroidered on it. I thought it would be funny to embarrass him when he opens it in front of his family.

My question is, what would you think if your girlfriend did that to you? Would you freak out, and not sleep with it to avoid looking feminine. Or, would you cuddle it to your chest every night because it was the gift of the love of your life?

I personally think my man will like it. ;)

2007-12-10 15:49:33 · 3 answers · asked by Latina111 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife abuses me , financially , verbally, emotionally and turns sometimes physically aggressive too. she wants all luxuries and facilities of life, but doesn't want to perform anything regarding household and kid. she is good for nothing, her agenda is roaming, shopping, nagging, eating, sleeping and abusing and that's all is life in her terminology. does she deserve the car , she is asking for.
when she travelled with me to Europe, she promised me that she will never abuse me in future but she forgot her commitment, what do you think , if i buy her a car , she will stop abusing me.

2007-12-10 15:48:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 15:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by vincent 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this guy and i have been talking for about a month and we both have openley admitted that we have feelings for eachother. We were great on friday ( the last time i saw him) and now he wouldnt even look or talk to me today. This is the second time he has done this and the last time it lasted about 4 days and he came back to me like nothing was wrong. I am so sick of the games he plays, what should i do?

2007-12-10 15:48:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, here we go. I am military and my wife and I got married before I left for the middle east. We did not tell her family. We planned on having a wedding on our 2 year anniversary and told them the date. Now we are not going to have the wedding (alot of planning for 2 people and want to save the money) and are wondering how we are going to tell them. We were thinking of making it a small joke or something. We just saw the movie "This Christmas" and was going to say something like surprise. Kinda as a joke. Still not too sure how we are going to do it and not have them too mad at us. HELP me out.

2007-12-10 15:47:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

theres a girl ivce known for about a year shes one of my good friends i have came to fancy her over the past few months,we were ok buddys in high school but i college weve hung out more. i just dont know she has a boy friend that she seems to like alot, i dont have a cjance shes real pretty and im fat,shes kinda a cow girl and im mixed, ive never had a girl friend or even yes...got laid the shame,i dont know im a nice guy i got a okay face i guess but... im huge im bout 330 but im built for a fat guy i can move and im not what your thinking of one of those big tubos that have huge bellys i have a big one but its more flat then oval, i played football for 3 years in high school i just dont know what to do im pretty much a pittiful tubby boy thats gonna be the next 40 year old virgin lol yea but just give me your thoughts and advise tubby boy lol

2007-12-10 15:42:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i lived with abuse for years and now im gone. and life is so sad, for me right now. omg he had me arrested, i need help

2007-12-10 15:41:57 · 2 answers · asked by sheilasays 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel it weird to ask but i just want to try if i can have any answer that match my thoughts because i am really unsure about this. my boyfriend told me that i should be patience for a while, i should wait for him to put an end for his relationship with his girlfriend so that we could be together. his girlfriend will spend this xmas with him and his family, sadly not me. i just wonder why he doesn't want me to come by and spend xmas with him so that his girlfriend will be able to know that he want to be with me and she will get the answer. moreover, i will not have this complicated feelings. a very painful fellings of being put aside during holidays. can any of you tell me what this means. i have no idea if i should put up with this. i am under such a great depression. i can't find a reason to convince myself about this strange idea of me being alone while he is spending time with that woman.

2007-12-10 15:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by hong h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm scared of that happening, can anyone tell me how to properly ask out a girl (in a polite manner, no cheesy or demeaning pickup lines). <---- Main objective
If the girl does say no, will I ever be able to show my face to her again? <---- Critical Question
And not to demonize all girls, but do girls talk to other people about how they got asked out and how they rejected someone? <---- Important, girls please Answer!!!!!!!
It would be good If I got a lot of answers for this question.

Thank You

2007-12-10 15:39:54 · 42 answers · asked by Weapon S 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 15:39:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the past, I had some conflicts with my sis and I was mad for a long time. I eventually got over with it and when my parents lost their home, we moved in together in my apartment for 2 yrs. In those 2 years, we have had one major fight where police was involved. Since then, we have not fight so much until she decided to fool around with her co-worker and got her feelings hurt. At one point she told me what happened to her, I tried to help her in many ways but eventually told her, you did it, you deal with it.
Nerveless, to know she took it to offence and till today she blames me for saying the things that I did. She also blames me for not celebration her birthday which was in Oct. I tried to explain to her that on that day, I had worked a double shift and I was too tired to do anything.- She took it to offense when I said to her, it is not just one day that counts, it is every day. Yes, I did not buy her a card or a cake but throughout the year, I have taken her to dinners, helicopter ride, and even given her money. Did I do her wrong? I can easily on that day buy her a 12-14 dollars cake and not spend anymore $ throughout the year. Do you see my point?

2007-12-10 15:35:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am always bored! and i need somethings thats can keep me and my friends, or just me unbored! cause we seem to get into ALOT of trouble when we are bored, and i cant handle another detention! lol

2007-12-10 15:32:06 · 4 answers · asked by Catherine R 1 in Friends

when i mean crazy i mean like head over heels for them

2007-12-10 15:31:40 · 13 answers · asked by li.ace.anne 2 in Singles & Dating

I do!

2007-12-10 15:31:27 · 14 answers · asked by ncgirl 6 in Singles & Dating

I don't mind or anything I am not jealous. The thing is that I feel embarress for her because one of her boobs are bigger then the other and its really noticable..... i don't think she realizes that.. however i don't want to tell her that. not sure what i should do. I am going to post a picture here for those who think I am overexagerating:
http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2486868010102562335hRwzfs

2007-12-10 15:30:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please don't say "I think Cameron Diaz/Brad Pitt is hot", I'd like specifics. Hair color/type, long/short?. Eyes? Short or tall? Characteristics?

2007-12-10 15:28:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating