Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

Uh, okay. This is really random, but, I was wondering....
In a marriage ceremony, is the woman on the right, or the left?
Standing at the... altar thingy... lol.
Thanks!

2007-12-10 17:05:46 · 13 answers · asked by Luopia the Lenatopia 3 in Weddings

ive been wondering things about age . . .for example is it wrong for a 50 year old man to flirt with a 20 year old woman? but what if the woman is creeped out? but than if u reverse it where the 20 year old flirts with the 40 year old would it be any different?

2007-12-10 17:05:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I messaged a group of guys that share a myspace, when one finally responded this was his, response:
- Hey, this is Matt and I dont check our site much cuz the boys either do it or someone else but I will answer some for ya.-
I didn't ask for anyone in particular to answer the questions, and if it matters semi-local band. No I don't know them.

2007-12-10 17:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother and his girlfriend are both freshmen in high school, and they've been dating for maybe four months at the most. The problem is, they seem to be moving awfully fast. To put it in perspective, they said "I love you" after a few days, started stripping after a few weeks, and have now progressed to fingering and oral sex.
I know all this because my boyfriend informed me that there were rumors going around about them, so I checked it out. His instant messenger auto-logs-in, so I looked at their conversations, which offered a vivid picture of their activities and their plans for future activities.
I'm sick of it, and I don't know if I'm justified in my concern (after all, if my mother knew this was going on, he would probably never be allowed to see her again) or if I'm overstepping my boundaries.
His girlfriend is coming over tomorrow, and it makes me sick to think of what they said they will do.
I want to let someone know, because this doesn't feel right.
What should I do?

2007-12-10 17:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Sepharium 3 in Family

2007-12-10 17:01:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I have a guy best friend. He IM's me everyday. I will ask him questions and he will reply, "Yeah, I dont care" Like today I asked what gifts I should get my friend Max, because he got everyone else a gift. I was just wondering what ideas he had, since hes a guy; and he replies, "Yeah I don't care" He will do this on simple questions, like if I ask him if he listened to a song I liked. I mean we are 20.
Answers are great!
Why can't he just act like he cared, and kept that to himself!!!?!?!?

2007-12-10 17:01:38 · 24 answers · asked by Chipps 1 in Singles & Dating

this is because hes bestfriends with her sister. he still ikes my girlfriend and cant get over her and he hangs out with her sister probably just so he can see her. my girlfriend says its alwas akward and doenst like talking to him but cant help it cause hes always there and is a family friend.

this really buggs me and i dont wanna deal with it. it makes me pissed/ stressed. what should i tell her? im really considering dumping her over this.

2007-12-10 17:01:08 · 5 answers · asked by dudde 1 in Singles & Dating

move out next month. I wish she would change her mind. Want to scream out loud for her to stay. Her mind is made up so i am trying to accept it. I love her with all my heart and will miss her very, very much. Once she moves out i know it will be time for me to let go, cause for now im still holding on. I think about her moving out and it hurts so for now i try not to think about it. Any advice please................. Ur little girl

2007-12-10 16:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by little girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does age matter? because i dont think it does is old an opinion? or a fact?

2007-12-10 16:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I (20years, a model and soon a uni graduate) have been dating this guy (24 years) that has two kids, and to tell you the truth isn't that good looking at all. But I have fallen deeply in love with him and the two girls. I have met all of his family and stay over his place all the time over weekends. My family would have never imagined me to go for somebody with kids and are very disappointed in me. They said they would never approve of him and would never want to meet him. I love and respect my parents and family dearly, but on the other hand I am so in love with him.

My dad is crazy!! And he still doesn't really know but has a fair idea about it. He said if I am dating this guy (which I denied), he would go around there and bash the f*&# out of him!! My brothers and uncles want to go round and "half kill him". They say he is only going to get me pregnant and leave me, but i know him and he is a beautiful person!!

I feel I am hurting my family because of my love for this man!

2007-12-10 16:53:49 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so, there's this guy that I like- he's a junior and on the varsity basketball team. I'm a freshman, but look a bit older for my age. He seems cool, but I have no classes with him and only sometimes see him on campus. How can I get to know him, and would it be dumb to expect anything knowing that he's two years older than me?

2007-12-10 16:44:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been working for the same company for 10 years now. About a year ago the company hired a new secretary. (we'll call her Gail. Of course, that's not her real name) At first I really didn't pay to much attention to her. She was just the "new girl on the other side of the building". About 3 months after she started I met her. It wasn't anything special I just had to make a delivery to someone in her department but since that person wasn't in his office I left the package with her. She was very nice and rather personable. For the next month I really didn't think to much about her. While walking into the lunch room one day I notice that she was sitting by herself and I decide to sit a few seats away from her. We started talking and before I knew it, we had talked through our entire 1 hour lunch break. Needless to say, we had hit it off pretty good.

Over the course of the next few months I would occasionally take a "detour" so that I could spend a little time with her and would try to line up my lunch breaks so that we would have lunch at the same time.
I found myself quite "captivated" by her.
One day while passing by her desk I noticed that she was rubbing her shoulder. I asked her, if she was alright and she told me that she had taken a little spill on a wet floor. I walked up behind her and started massaging her shoulders. She seem to be really enjoying it so I kept at it for several minutes. After I finally stopped she said, "you're hired".lol

But since that time whenever I see her, I have the desire to physical touch her. Whether it's a gentle rub on the back or just simply touching her arm I just can't pass by her with out touching her. I honestly believe that she is enjoying this as much as I do.
About 2 weeks ago her and I were the last ones in the office area that she works in. I was helping her put on her coat. After she had slipped her arms into the sleeves she spun around and there we were...6 inches apart with our eyes lock onto each other. My heart was thumping so hard I thought that it was going smash right through my rib cage. It pretty much took everything that I have not to "take her" right on the spot. It would be safe to say that we have developed feelings for each other but
as of to date we have not slept together or even kissed.

You see, Gail is married. For about 8 years now and has 2 children. From what I can figure out her and her husband seem to be getting along just fine. That's to say, they have no real conflicts that I can see. She never says any thing negative about him.

One part of me wants to hold onto her and never let go. But I also have this "little voice" in the back of my heading screaming that I should really put some distance between us because this isn't the right thing to be doing.
FWIW I'm 38 and she is 33.
Constructive opinions only-Please.

2007-12-10 16:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by Jus1oftheboys 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this guy that i have known for some years now and he did some really bad things. he wants me to marry him. so anyway he's going to prison and now he wants me to wait on him for as long as he's away. but in the past he has been in jail, he says that samething and ends up going back to one of his ex girlfriends and i feel like hes gonna do the same thing this time. so what should i do?

2007-12-10 16:42:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...to the point that you think the people staring at you are thinking "wow....look how ugly he/she is" .....i think that sometimes....am I just being paranoid or does this happen to other people?

2007-12-10 16:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had some serious issues with my in-laws, however my husbands brother is very attractive to me. I almost never speak with him and have not ever had any inappropriate contact. He doesn't even like me, so it is even wierder. It's strange he's not the hottest guy on earth, but definitely is not ugly. I annoy myself with this issue because I really have issues with the way his family has treated me and I feel like I am betraying myself and my husband for thinking this-and I know the feeling would not be mutual!! Has this happened to any of you ladies out there? How to deal??

2007-12-10 16:38:03 · 7 answers · asked by Ferrari 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He has quit and is having really bad mood swings and anything anyone can suggest would be very helpful. THANKS

2007-12-10 16:34:53 · 8 answers · asked by MiMi ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

you text them "hey hows it going, you busy" then when they reply "its been going good, no", you call them and start talking

another version would be texting them..." hey you wanna talk" and if they reply "sure", then you call them instead of texting them....but usually i alway want to make sure they arent busy with anything by texting then calling....does that make it too clingy....is there another way...

2007-12-10 16:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 16:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by crazyhorseavi 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does this mean when a girl says that? What is she trying to hint towards? Could it hint towards being in a relationship or does it just mean that im a good freind with her?

2007-12-10 16:28:40 · 17 answers · asked by dirkaboy 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex thinks that i cheated on her. Me and her were going out and we didn't realy talk like every time i would go by her she would stare down at her homework. So then when i was at chorus someone said she broke up with me so i thought we were through because he told me that and he was one of my close friends so i was really sad. And i was going on the bus home thinking "So now im single" and the girl next to me was a really close friend and i just started talking and then i put my arm around her (nothing else happend) and then i thought me and my other girlfriend were done so i asked her out over the weekend and then my ex-girlfriend said "I didnt want to break up with you" and i didnt like her anymore then she got angry at my current girlfriend and is now being a ***** to her and me and now shes sayin fake things that we said on Instant messenger and typing them. We have a trip tomorow and i dont want to have to have my ex in my way of me and my current gf what should i do?

2007-12-10 16:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 16:26:22 · 15 answers · asked by Alycia [♥] 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 16:25:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to see how often people masturbated...
to compare to me. Just so see if I'm normal-
I do have a boyfriend though- and I know that masturbating isn't bad- so i do it! lol
to be fair... I'll tell you I do it about 3 times a week, and probably have sex about 3 times a week too... normal?

2007-12-10 16:25:10 · 56 answers · asked by pam3la 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like a guy, and its my friends old crush. Then right when i was about to tell her i liked him, she said she wasnt over him. and my other friend is trying to get me to ask him out for her coz she likes him to , but she doesnt know i like him. And then we are doing dancing at school and he asks me to be his partner and i said yes. Then he asked me out but im no sure if he was kidding so i said no. I want to ask him out but i dont want my friends to get hurt. One of my friends knows and shes mad but shes still my friend coz she knows that he wont go out with her. What should i do? My friend never actually went out with him because he said no because she was to shy and he didnt like her anyway.

2007-12-10 16:20:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am almost 30 and have not yet officially started to date. I have gone on a total of two dates in my entire life. They took place when I was 23 and at the time I felt it was way too early to get into that stuff. What is weird now is that I have become so involved in my career and working on a masters degree that I totally forgot about the "finding love" aspect of life. Seriously, I had an awakening of a sort and said to myself, "Oh yeah, I forgot about maybe someday getting a girlfriend and experiencing my first kiss." I have been told it will be difficult to get into the game so late and even harder because I still live at home by choice. LOL, should I even bother to seek a relationship or should I just pursue more important things like a career etc.?

2007-12-10 16:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would this statement work.....

I love you..thats alright if you dont feel the same way..im telling how i feel about you and me....

is there a better way of saying it

2007-12-10 16:18:42 · 1 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 16:17:50 · 17 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl who I went to high school with. I have wanted to be with her since the first time I saw her. Now that we have graduated, she keeps coming over to my house every other week.
Last time I asked her out, she said that she was with someone. She is still with this person but I feel that her coming over to my house and spending so much time with me, is her way of telling me that she wants me to ask her again.
I know that she has had problems with her current boyfriend in the past but at this point I am not sure how to proceed. I want her to like me but I don't know if she wants me or if she just wants to keep in touch.

Someone help me figure this out.

2007-12-10 16:17:15 · 17 answers · asked by Brian E 2 in Singles & Dating

A while back my husband and I were going through a really rough patch and we split up for a while. during that time I strayed..... I know it was really stupid and I regret it more than anything. We got back together and things have been good for over a year and he recently found out. Now things have gone down hill. We will be fine for a week or so then its a blow up. I know I hurt him more than I can imagine, but I want to get back to the good we were having before this came out. I get so mad when he brings it up but then I feel so guilty for being mad. I just want to get back to normal, whatever that is..... Please help!!!

2007-12-10 16:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

5 months ago i fell in love with a girl who had a boyfriend and i couldnt have her, i cried over her every night and still do, i still love this girl and it hurts me so much, how long will it take me to fully get over her and for me to stop crying, everytime i see her or her myspace picture it makes my heart melt. what can i do to get over her faster n how long will it take?

2007-12-10 16:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating