My brother and his girlfriend are both freshmen in high school, and they've been dating for maybe four months at the most. The problem is, they seem to be moving awfully fast. To put it in perspective, they said "I love you" after a few days, started stripping after a few weeks, and have now progressed to fingering and oral sex.
I know all this because my boyfriend informed me that there were rumors going around about them, so I checked it out. His instant messenger auto-logs-in, so I looked at their conversations, which offered a vivid picture of their activities and their plans for future activities.
I'm sick of it, and I don't know if I'm justified in my concern (after all, if my mother knew this was going on, he would probably never be allowed to see her again) or if I'm overstepping my boundaries.
His girlfriend is coming over tomorrow, and it makes me sick to think of what they said they will do.
I want to let someone know, because this doesn't feel right.
What should I do?
2007-12-10 17:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Sepharium 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You might want to make sure that he is aware of the risks for pregnancy and STD's.
Other than that, you'll need to explain your invasion of his privacy.
2007-12-10 17:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am also a freshman and quite honestly i think you should tell your mom. your brother may be mad for a little while, but in the long run you can be saving him from alot worse things than not being able to see a girl hes infatuated by.
Also, he wudnt want to get an STD now and have to tell his future partner that he recieved it when he was only a freshman.
hoped i helped out :) do the right thing & be what your suppose to be, a big sister !
2007-12-10 17:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to him and warn him of the consequences sexual behaviors could lead to and etc if he's the type who doesn't lisen well inform him of the many stds and risk he could be getting both of them into.....
I think you should also tell him (since you said she was coming over tomorrow) how it is disrespectful to be doing sexual or inappropiate behavior in your parents house...ask him to respect you alls parents by not doing such actions and again just tell him to slow down bc there are risky that come along with all of that health wise and even as you said "word around town" wise....
2007-12-10 17:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Helpkwas! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is none of ur business. yeah its true they are too young, BUT u have to let them make their own mistakes. besides, if u telled him that u went through his conversations, he would hate u forever (i know i would!). i HATE HATE HATE snoopers! u need to back off, and give him space and privacy. if it makes u ill to think of what they are planning to do, then maybe u shouldnt be home when she comes over, then u can find somewhere else to go like a friend's house or the library. there are a million different things u can do.
2007-12-10 18:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom, he's too young to do this. Also, your post is too graphic for children that are on yahoo answers.
2007-12-10 17:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should quit cock blocking him and let him go get him some tang. just because you're a prude doesn't mean everyone else has to be.
2007-12-10 17:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋