I have had some serious issues with my in-laws, however my husbands brother is very attractive to me. I almost never speak with him and have not ever had any inappropriate contact. He doesn't even like me, so it is even wierder. It's strange he's not the hottest guy on earth, but definitely is not ugly. I annoy myself with this issue because I really have issues with the way his family has treated me and I feel like I am betraying myself and my husband for thinking this-and I know the feeling would not be mutual!! Has this happened to any of you ladies out there? How to deal??
2007-12-10 16:38:03 · 7 answers · asked by Ferrari 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not thinking about doing ANYTHING with him, it just bugs me that the thought crops up every now and then. Even at the worst times I will start daydreaming about it- I just don't get why- he has been such an *** to me at times--
2007-12-10 16:49:46 · update #1
i don't think it's too out of the ordinary. even married couples find themselves attracted to other people. it doesn't mean it's wrong and it also doesn't mean that you should act on it.
2007-12-10 16:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by fiore 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
If you had seen my husband's brothers you would understand why I'd say HELL NO! Not either of them are attractive to me, but they are both married now, so I guess they are to someone. They were all free when I met my husband, and I KNOW I got the best of the bunch. Even my brother-in-law's wife agrees! So there's no way I'd even consider one of them in that light - its just too EWWW!
2007-12-11 00:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When those thoughts come, dismiss them immediately and think of something else like how to keep your husband happy.
Joy to you!
2007-12-11 03:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen....it is human nature to be attracted to another. It is an ***-whole to act on those instincts when you are married.
2007-12-11 00:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by veronica c 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from him... he's your brother in law... sleeping with him would be the lowest thing you could ever do.
2007-12-11 00:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by BitterSweet 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
She Santa will place you on the naughty list
2007-12-11 00:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
genetically, he is similar to your husband so you are attracted to him. so what, i think my sister in law is hot but i'm not going to get it on in reality, just in my fantasy.
2007-12-11 01:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋