Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

when my sister went to delhi for work, my cousin called asking my mom when i can visit india, she said during my holidays..since i have holidays coming up, she is sending me to my dad's..was that wrong of her to do that.when i talked to him, he told me he was looking forward to seeing me as well...is it possible that he is expecting me in india

2007-12-10 15:26:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-10 15:25:44 · 11 answers · asked by Ballerina 1 in Singles & Dating

they are total jerks to me and everybody else! ive been with my fiance for almost 5 years and they never accepted me from the beginning. they talk about me, but not to me. we can be in the same room and not speak a word to me. one even tried to fight me. i told him that if they dont respect me then they dont respect you and theyre not allowed to come in our home.

2007-12-10 15:19:49 · 13 answers · asked by Krissy 1 in Family

i even dont speak english very well(does that really matter to a girl)..what should i do???? rent a hooker or get socialize..i dont understand..plz advise!!!Thanx

2007-12-10 15:14:43 · 11 answers · asked by Attitude 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy. He used to like me, and i liked him. we didnt go out cuz another girl liked him and he kinda liked her. Im still like in love with him, and idk what to do. hes kind of a player, but i think he likes me a little bit. He always tells me im beautiful, smart, amazing, and more. How do i get him to ask me out!?

2007-12-10 15:12:43 · 8 answers · asked by lilyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

alrite so heres the situation.

so theres this girl and weve been friends for a longg time and ive started to like her more than that recently. and her birthday's coming up in a few days so honestly i really wanna take advantage of this and get her something really special. like im not the richest person so a diamond necklace/earrings wud be pretty hard to get given the timing circunstances and money issue lol. like i need something simple yet it shows her that i do care about her alot.

any ideas?

2007-12-10 15:09:57 · 8 answers · asked by some jersey kid 1 in Singles & Dating

well there is this guy i like. and he likes me back..
but im thinking about him alot and i miss him since i never see him or talk to him..
any ideas?

2007-12-10 15:08:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i went out with a friend of mine and i realized we were better off being friends and he is obsessed with me. but then when i talk to him everything i say is mean or wrong. but you could ask any of my friends and they would tell you i am the nicest person i can be. but why does he tell people he has strong feelings for me but then get mad at me?

2007-12-10 15:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a junior hes a senior he wants to chill with me sometime this week. i think he likes me ya cause he sends me texts saying good night sweety and stuff and the hearts and all that mushy stuff lol. but im afraid to go because i have a huge fear of awkwardness i dont want it to be awkward cause i dont know much about him. so what should i do to be more comfortable? should i bring one of my friends with me the first time we chill? im also like really bad with relationships and stuff like i tense up and dont know what to do or say ya i know im lame but any advice???

2007-12-10 15:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i go to college with this girl...probably the chillest girl ive ever hung out with, we chill everyday and just enjoy each others company.... she has a boyfriend at home but NEVER talks about him or mentions his name. Shelll wait for me to get out of class by my dorm and always wants to hang out or smoke and what not. shes a naturally flirty girl and we have taked about relationships and what we like in a girl/guy. i always catch her looking at me then she looks away quickly. we laugh together alot, listen to the same music, enjoy the same activities, and overall, in my opinion, are perfect for each other. i get the feeling she is interested in me. but still has a boyfriend at home wich she goes home to occaionally (every couple of weeks)whenever we walk with my friends and i she always walks next to me, or finds a way to walk with me.(she likes all my friends and theylike her and we all chill together) what should i think here? im lost and need help and guidance

2007-12-10 15:07:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my crush were having a great time together . One fine day i proposed her ( not a wedding proposal ) . Her answer was that she didnt know what to do .. I asked her what happened and she said that she already had a relationship with someone n that he had broken her heart later and so she isnt very interested in this kinda relationship for sometime ...... And so i waited ... after 1 year from that day ( which was a week ago ) i again proposed her when i started to feel that i just cant live without her anymore ... But then came the problem ... her bf had said a sorry a few weeks before he said that he sincerely loves her now and really wants her back .... and now shes slowly going back to her old relationship with him ,,,, What should i do ?? My feelings to her has grown to more than just a crush .... she really everything to me right now and i dont know whatll happen to me if i lose her . What should i do ?

2007-12-10 15:04:49 · 1 answers · asked by ajay k 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and I really thought that he was the one. We never fought, and when we did have issues we dealt with them right away. In the last 3 months he went away to school to a big city. I got accepted to the same grad school and department and I am moving into the same town. Before these last 3 months, we've never been apart. The long distance has put a strain on the relationship but nothing I would call serious. I thought that we would pick up where we left off when I moved. Last week I moved into my studio and the second day I was there he broke up with me. He said that he just didn't love me anymore. I know being in the big city for the first time was very exciting for him and I thought that maybe all the distractions could have been a contributing factor. He has changed (not for the worst) since he's moved. I thought he was the one. I have had boyfriends before but nothing like this. He was without a doubt the love of my life.(to be continued)

2007-12-10 15:04:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok theres this girl ive know for a little over a year now...i have...lets say strong feeling for her, when we still saw eachother back in school she had some for me. i never really stopped liking her after i graduated. but she's a senior now and she recently told me she was bi and had a gf...for some reason i cant let go and dont think i really want to... i think she might still have feelings for me...small but i think they're still there..please help, what should i do?????

2007-12-10 15:02:55 · 4 answers · asked by corkydw89 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about a month, we have been intimate already. He does not know that one of the clauses of my divorce stipulates that my ex is to live in my house. We divorce a year ago and have a 11 YO girl. I work full time and got to school part time. It has been of great help to have the ex in the house to take care of the kid, also he pays rent for his room so that’s a plus. The ex & I obviously get along well, but there is NOTHING else going on (he’s 20 years older than me). I have been thinking about showing my BF the clause in my divorce & explain from there… Is this a good idea? How would you solve this situation? I’m not kicking out the ex, as a single mom I need his help & the rent $$.

2007-12-10 15:02:48 · 9 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Singles & Dating

How long does the average man wait before he starts dating again after a breakup from a 4 year affair?

2007-12-10 15:00:55 · 31 answers · asked by hchkmp3 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 15.
do you think there is a chance for me to be with a 19 year old guy in college or is this just wierd?

2007-12-10 15:00:47 · 5 answers · asked by paramoreballer 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 14:59:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was sexually abused by my ex best friend, a year ago. Ever since I can barely lay in a bed with thinking about it, meaning I've slept on a sofa every night since. When I go into a room my first thought is 'how many people are here? and if I need to escape from any of them what's the best way to do?'
I can't handle being in crowded places, like a bus or town or the movies. If I'm stuck in a crowded place for too long (or any place where I can't keep trackin of everyone there) Then I get really bad panic attacks.
I can't wear short sleeve tops, cause I need to remind myself all the time that I am still wearing clothes an being able to grab my sleeve reminds me of that.
Theres other things too but they're the more serious one.

Will this pass? And if yes but not for a while then what can I do to help provent my panic attacks or bad dreams?

2007-12-10 14:59:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found my girlfriend hysterically crying in our bed, so I layed down beside her, wrapped my arms around her, and tried to get her to tell me what was wrong, but she wouldn't say anything. She finally told me that she doesn't want me to ever leave her, but I'm not planning on it, and I don't understand why she would even be thinking I would do that. Everything is okay between us. Then, she told me to get out of the room, because she needed time to get over me. About 3 minutes later, she came downstairs, and hugged me, and started crying hysterically again, and now she won't let me go. She's been glued to me for almost 3 hours. I'm not complaining. I'm here when she needs me and she obviously needs me, but what could be going on? Why would she think I'm leaving her for forever, then tell me to go away, then get all clingy?

2007-12-10 14:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Um, so... my friend made me a dating site profile for fun basically. Well because I haven't dated anyone since my last ex. Anyway I was bored so I searched through some profiles of girls in my area and emailed one. She replied back and we exchanged like ten emails since last night til now. I said we should talk on the phone if she wanted, and gave her my #. She then gave me hers and said "talking on the phone should be fun." Also she said I was making her blush by something I was saying. And I said "I'll need a well-needed break after my finals. We should watch a movie together next week." And made a little hug symbol after that. She said a movie sounds fun, sure and that we would figure out a time when we talk on the phone. Oh and she said I seemed outgoing and said that was very good bc I seem like a lot of fun.

Do you think she's into me and wanting to get to know me more?

If things go well would it be too fast to hold her hand during the movie and kiss at the end?

2007-12-10 14:57:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my husband 2000... got married 2001 ...and had her son 2004. Everything seemed ok but my husband i very negative at times... pessimist in other words. I am a very happy person...always set goals and try to achieve them.. I was never controlled by anyone and always made my on decisions.Never was into boys etc...always career..and my husband knows and trusts me for that. But I am just getting tired of my wedding. I feel no interest in sex with him... I approach him for a slow dance or anything romantic..he just does'nt mke the effort... I am compromising for my child. I am 27 now and after the baby I gained a lotof weight...but gradually started to lose it and i feel so many unmarried men are attracted towards me.. I try to keep them at their place but sometimes getreally depressed that this is how i will be living for the rest of my life. Please dont suggest to talk to my husband...did that several times but he is very non serious about it..what should i do?

2007-12-10 14:55:33 · 6 answers · asked by Kash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you date a woman who had a child with special needs? or would you think it was too much to handle? my husband is having a very hard time with the fact that we have a special needs son, and our son isnt even a serious case. I'm just wondering if a lot of men have issues like this.

2007-12-10 14:55:28 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so I kind of like this guy, he is one of those guys that you go through elementary, middle, and high school with, along with everyone else you grow up with, I'm not friends with him and we don't talk much, but I steel almost get a feeling that he likes me. I heard that if someone likes you then their feet will point at you, well we had a test and during the break he was hanging with some people in front of me, sitting on a desk and his feet were pointing at me. He is also friends with the kid I sit next to in this one class, and during that class he had to sit next to me because when he left his friend that sits next to me sat in his spot. So when he came back he sat next to me and said hello, I said hi back. Then he asked to copy my notes, and asked whos stuff was on the desk and started drawing on it. Also one time I had the school news paper on my desk, and he asked to see it, then when I get it back he said "nice job" and when I looked through it he drew silly things on the..

2007-12-10 14:53:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 14:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do yall guy's flirt with a girl?

2007-12-10 14:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by *♥♥♥gigglez♥♥♥* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 14:49:12 · 23 answers · asked by Mary S 1 in Friends

2007-12-10 14:49:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the eldest child in my family two sisters and one a baby Einstein. Now i have been very close with my sisters and my parents but with my brother i have a full 12yr gap and hence he lives in his own world and we essentially do not connect much. He also spent time away from home which adds to the problem for all the three siblings to actually know what kind of a person our brother is really. The problem starts with the fact that he has always seen me and the elder sister as just his bro and sis not real people and i have trouble getting this point across to him. And he has blown the issue to such large proportions that he refuses to speak with my new wife and my sister's finace.....I try to go easy on him just because he is 14 but he has to understand that one day all of us leave to have their own families......how do i get it across to him in way that he can totally get the point?.......his extreme introvertedness has also given to him being extremely violent when around me....help

2007-12-10 14:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

middle school

2007-12-10 14:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by nick d 1 in Singles & Dating

and I care about him deeply and I know deep down he wishes I would reconsider us being together... since he mentioned it a few times. We dated for over 5 years and many times during the relationship I wondered if I was feeling things the way I was supposed to.

I know now that I don't love my ex the way he wants me to. I know because I am in love with someone else although he and I are not in a relationship. I haven't told my ex about how I feel about this other guy because I know it would break his heart.

Again, I love my ex, but not in the way he wants me to. A big part of me says that we shouldn't be friends anymore because I feel like I'm leading him on although he doesn't think we will get back together. At the same time, I am having a hard time letting go since we've helped each other deal with so many of life's ups and downs. We've been friends for over 10 years because we connect on a deep level, just not on a romantic level (on my end).

What should I do?

2007-12-10 14:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by Krysta 2 in Singles & Dating