Girl advice?

Question

Um, so... my friend made me a dating site profile for fun basically. Well because I haven't dated anyone since my last ex. Anyway I was bored so I searched through some profiles of girls in my area and emailed one. She replied back and we exchanged like ten emails since last night til now. I said we should talk on the phone if she wanted, and gave her my #. She then gave me hers and said "talking on the phone should be fun." Also she said I was making her blush by something I was saying. And I said "I'll need a well-needed break after my finals. We should watch a movie together next week." And made a little hug symbol after that. She said a movie sounds fun, sure and that we would figure out a time when we talk on the phone. Oh and she said I seemed outgoing and said that was very good bc I seem like a lot of fun.

Do you think she's into me and wanting to get to know me more?

If things go well would it be too fast to hold her hand during the movie and kiss at the end?

Answer 1

Well, it sounds like she's interested in you and wants to get to know you more. I suggest you sit close to her and have your arms or legs touching but nothing too forward, she might get the wrong idea that you just want to oompha oompha haha. but anyways, just be nice, friendly, make her laugh, and show her how fun it is to be out with you so she'll want to do it again. and also, if she's getting flirtatious with you, for example, flirtatiously looking at you, smiling at you while looking kind of down, or touching you, then I think she'll want a nice peck at the end of the date.

Answer 2

Well any girl that gives out her number is always interested.
If you gave her yours and she gave you hers that means she definitely wants to talk. If she just took yours and didnt give out hers it would be like... maybe i'll call you one day.
She sounds like she wants to go hang out with you after finals... i'd definitely plan something out.

As far as holding hands and kissing... that all just depends on the date. If she smiles alot and is constantly looking you in the eyes and listening to what you have to say... grab her hand at one point. A good time would be when you guys are walking into the theater, because its dark and you dont want to lose her. Just grab it, dont ask or try to get her attention... its better when you surprise us. But only do this if she seems like she's enjoying her time with you (laughing, smiling and what not)

Kissing is another story. She may have morals you know. I think it shows that a guy is a real gentlemen when he asks first if you kiss on the first date. Some people get offended as if thats all a guy is worried about. But personally i'd rather have him ask then have a guy go for it when i did not want it to happen in the first place.

Answer 3

i think that she is in 2 u. Going 2 the movies is fun, but dont take thing 2 fast. She might get scared. Try talking 2 her first and get 2 know her more. Then maybe on the second date u can kiss her. U could hold her hand on the first date but not like all the time while yr at the movies.

Hope i helped:)

**Jenn**

Answer 4

It depends but you know the rules dont kiss on the first date. A hand hold and cuddle might be okay thou it all depends on the chemistry. Dont move in to fast you never know what the girl is looking for in you. Also you should try going another date when where you are doing something active where you can talk without it being awkward like an activity. Movies its hard to get to know them to well. I would wait for the kiss. If you do thou that first kiss after your ex feels so good believe me.

Answer 5

It sounds like she is digging you. Only when you guys meet at the movies can you decide if the mood is right for a kiss and a hand hold. You sound like a sweet guy. Best of luck to you on your finals and with this girl.

Answer 6

1. Find out more about her. Is she someone that you think you are honestly compatible with? Worry more about whether she is compatible with you than whether or not she is into you. You can't control that, and you will find out soon enough.
2. If things go well you can choose to hold her hand or kiss her. If it's too fast she will let you know and you can be very understanding about it and assure her that you don't want to make her uncomfortable. It is entirely your choice. Wait and see what you think when you meet her in person.

Answer 7

she seems into you. well, depending how long you've known each other for, go on a date with her. take her to a nice movie. but on a first date, it might be too much to do that. but you either do a suprise one or even ask. you can never be to careful about asking for a kiss, because if you pull a fast one, she may not like it, and make the night awkward.

Answer 8

Go wit your instincts on the night. But still because you have never met this person for real. If you really are into this girl then just go for it! Good Luck with the movie too.

Answer 9

I think it would be too fast for kissing. though the date is worth a shot. If she were me I'd go but I would bring protection. and by protection i mean peper spray. can never be to careful. she's probably going to be causious about getting to know you because you are someone from the internet even though your in the same area...

just don't come on to strong. then reel her in slowly from there!

Answer 10

I dont think you should be dating anyone online bc u dont know who is out there i say you bring a few friends to the movies to spy on you just in case this "girl" is a werido.