i even dont speak english very well(does that really matter to a girl)..what should i do???? rent a hooker or get socialize..i dont understand..plz advise!!!Thanx
2007-12-10 15:14:43 · 11 answers · asked by Attitude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 18 and i live in melbourne as well. There are a lot of great bars out there so you really should go out and meet a girl. You really have to talk to the girls and take them back to your place for a drink and if the time comes then you can go her.
2007-12-10 15:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So - is there something wrong with being a virgin? None of the medical books I have say this is abnormal. I realize that, as a young male, your interest in sex is stronger than that of a female but
that doesn't mean you must indulge. I have married friends, in their 40's, and I am 100% positive that two of the men were virgins when they married - one was 25 and the other, 27.
Melbourne has a, very, international population and there are social affairs for, almost, every nationality. Check the newspaper or call the Chamber of Commerce/Tourist Office/Consulate (I lived in Blackburn North until 5 years ago and social life at most of the churches is a good way to meet someone). Blackburn North Baptist Church has an Oriental church group as well as western - the head pastor, Alan Dumand, is a Canadian.
2007-12-10 23:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by nmyankee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, work on your English. That would just help you in general in Melbourne. What you really need to remember is that virginity doesn't really matter. Don't ever have sex just to lose your virginity, you will regret it. Have sex because you want to. I wouldn't suggest hookers, but they are an option if you really just want to have sex. They can be expensive or dirty, though. What I would suggest is that you join some type of activity. Are you in school? If so, join a club. Your English will improve, you will meet people with the same interests you have, and some of them will be girls. You could also go to bars, they can be a nice way to meet people. Put yourself out there and have fun.
2007-12-10 23:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Sweetheart,
I am younger than you and I still remain a virgin but, in my case it's by choice. I wouldn't ever want someone to do something that'd make them uncomfortable just to have it as a notch on their belt. You might want to try socializing more to see if you find a woman that best suits your needs. Don't rush things babe. It'll all work out in the end. Good luck!
2007-12-10 23:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous_898 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it really a bad thing that your still a virgin. lots of girls will like that. you arent a guy who will pressure a girl to have sex with him. but if you really want meaniless sex than sure rent a hooker..easiest choice tho. but if u do want it to mean something then just wait for that special girl.
2007-12-12 18:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by shawanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's Melbourne got to do with it? Lots of people get laid in Melbourne. You obviously understand well and you answered yourself with your own suggestions. Drop the dumb act - it isn't attractive.
2007-12-10 23:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aiyo! why do you care whether your a virgin or not?
okay It doesn't matter whether you have sex or not...you just have to forget about that and live your own life.
Dude, you might sound like a perv when your desperate
Just get on with your life and go and marry someone.
Jeeze why can't Indian guys just get it? dumb dumb
2007-12-10 23:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by ^The Star^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you shouldn't be ready to have sex with the first thing with 2 legs and a vagina that walks by you. i thnk that you shuld find the right person and you should do it for the right reason and not because you're *****!
2007-12-10 23:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by HaiLeY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that big of a deal... find a girl you really care about and get in a relationship with her, then go from there.
2007-12-10 23:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by BeachBoarder 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be social. go out. take dance lessons. join a gym to meet girls.
2007-12-10 23:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by ftblseth59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋