ex bf creating problems?

Question

Me and my crush were having a great time together . One fine day i proposed her ( not a wedding proposal ) . Her answer was that she didnt know what to do .. I asked her what happened and she said that she already had a relationship with someone n that he had broken her heart later and so she isnt very interested in this kinda relationship for sometime ...... And so i waited ... after 1 year from that day ( which was a week ago ) i again proposed her when i started to feel that i just cant live without her anymore ... But then came the problem ... her bf had said a sorry a few weeks before he said that he sincerely loves her now and really wants her back .... and now shes slowly going back to her old relationship with him ,,,, What should i do ?? My feelings to her has grown to more than just a crush .... she really everything to me right now and i dont know whatll happen to me if i lose her . What should i do ?

Answer 1

Wait, you've already became a master at it, its time to test the skills. The fact is, you might of hurt yourself real bad with this one. The biggest warning sign was this "happened and she said that she already had a relationship with someone n that he had broken her heart later and so she isnt very interested in this kinda relationship" thats the nice way of saying, Sorry I'm only going to do it with one other person, if that doesn't work I'm going to kick and scream and not live my life tell they come back. Which is pretty much what happen, sorry buddy, I've been their. You really love her, well your going to have to trade "fall in love" for unconditional love. Which is extremely hard to do, means letting go of your hopes for the sack of a unconditional love friendship, if your stronge enough, the funny thing, its more intense then the relationship she might be getting back into, you'll have her on the long haul. But this stuff runs deep, thats the best I can do thru this medium.....