so i went out with a friend of mine and i realized we were better off being friends and he is obsessed with me. but then when i talk to him everything i say is mean or wrong. but you could ask any of my friends and they would tell you i am the nicest person i can be. but why does he tell people he has strong feelings for me but then get mad at me?
2007-12-10 15:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its simple really he is just mad that he cant get u. i believe u when u say that your nice becuz there was a case that that happened to me. if u tried the nicest way you could dont worry bout it just leave it alone he probably wants attention. dont give it to him, dont give him the joy of knowing that hes gettin u upset.....hope it helped
2007-12-10 15:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by boston 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HMMMM.....I have a similar problem.... Its because he still likes you and he cant letgo of you. Its easier to forget someone if you can make yourself mad at them or even hate them. besides that if he gets mad at you he can play it off to his friends that hes glad you guys broke up. Lastly it could be a ploy to make you feel bad about yourself and what you did so you'll pity him and get back with him. it could be a mixture of these.....
2007-12-10 23:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be one of those guys that has to always be right, or he just don't know how to be you BF. Whatever the reason I would just not deal with him in that way anymore, because if you already haven't you will ruin the friendship and he just doesn't seem like a good guy.
2007-12-10 23:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by LaTrice B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not ur fault, the poor guy cant handle the rejection. i have a friend just like that that would hate ppl, who r completely nice, b/c they reject him. talk to him with ease, give posititive (like "ur a great friend"), and let him settle down. girls forget how emotional men can be. =]
2007-12-10 23:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may just be paranoid that you don't like him and he's trying to guilt trip you into going out with him...
2007-12-10 23:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by pieninja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that this guy a lil too controlling
2007-12-10 23:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋