2007-12-10 15:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by JoAnn J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married for 28 1/2 years and i want to have sex with my husband but he is the one who says he is either to tired or to gassy or to bloated. He is only 47 and he should want to have sex with me, what is he going to be like when he is your husbands age. I guess I'll never get it then. I don't know what to tell you about your marriage i can only tell you how i look at sex. I don't think of it as having sex with the same person over and over i look at it as doing something with a man that makes me feel good .
2007-12-10 16:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 yrs of marriage is no joke.am sure you'd had ups and downs,marriage is a like roller coaster ride of emotions.the moment you get married,your priorities in life changes.spark doesn't last forever.so,i think your having a pretty normal married life w/ your husband.plan a vacation just the two of you,try to reminisce the firsts in your relationship and do the things you enjoy doing together. good luck!
2007-12-10 16:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by saodaji 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back to the drawing board. Go back to the time - what got you two going? One of you have to take the initiative.
Sorry to say - this kind of thing happens. Woman, unfortunately start to show their age and men, their makeup is such, they can't handle it anymore. It takes a certain mindset to realize they are not spring chicken anymore.
Put that life back into it by doing something for yourself that make him want you. Someone has to start, might as well that person be you. Otherwise this marriage is down the sliding path.
2007-12-10 16:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-12-10 16:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by onegirlsnightout 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take one of those hedonism vacations in Jamaica if you don't have the money for that, then why don't the 2 of you sit down and right down everything you haven't done yet in your life but want to do before you die and then get started on the list together!
2007-12-10 16:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gordito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to tango...why is the spark gone??? Maybe he is getting satisfied elsewhere...How long inbetween sexual interaction?? Men cant, nor do they want to wait...
Try spending more time with him, and see if the communication opens up a new romantic side to him...If not, he is probably getting it from another, younger female. Men of any age, have sexual desires....Age doesnt stop them from wanting to be wanted...
2007-12-10 19:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal as years go passing by, the sparks and magic of desire used so you need to explore and experiment to regain or enhances your sexual urges.
Why can you not discuss with your hubby to the idea to wife swapping or swinging to try another variety.
2007-12-10 19:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take little over night trips and depending where you are go fishing and take a picnic. as for sex get toys and good ones if your going to spend the money. it can get a little boring. weve been together 23 yrs also.. good luck
2007-12-10 16:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan a small romance get away, like a four day weekend ski trip, to the islands, out to vegas, some where nice.
2007-12-10 16:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋