okay, to start with me and lets call him jake anyways i found out last year that jake liked me then when i started talking to him he asked me out although i had to say no even though i liked him alot. he happens to be one of my friends brothers one night when i spent the night he came in after his sis fell asleep and was like i like you so much would you believe me if i kissed you but i just couldn't later he just wouldnt talk but thne a few weeks ago we hung out and played bball when he asked me to come with him to his house for a movie i told him i had to get home laster that day he blocked me on myspace then maybe last week i saw him (didnt talk) but he was smiling when his mom was talking to me then the next day he was adding me back on myspace now, i asked him just if he wanted to hang out or sumthing and he wont answer what is up with this boy? do you think he still likes me or did i screw it up?
2007-12-10 15:55:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you are leading him on .. you flirt and give all the signs .. then block him out ..
for shame
2007-12-10 15:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by CoachAutumn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"i had to say no even though i liked him alot"
^ Why'd you have to say no??
It seems lilke he had the idea that you were interested. If you liked him in the beginning then you probably would have showed signs that you were interested in him. You maybe flirted a little. He probably picked up on these and then got the go ahead, only to be turned down time after time.
If you like him, go for it. If not, talk to him about it. He probably still likes you but thinks you'll only reject him AGAIN. I don't think you screwed up, I think you just gave him the wrong idea.
2007-12-10 16:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Curious Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have obviously screwed things up. It may have been hard to do stuff, but you should have told him to truth. Would you like it if someone played games with your heart? Stop talking to him on myspace and get talk to him in person. If your shy, you should muster up the courage. Because if he has liked you for this long, he must be worth it. Don't worry about what other people will think.
Edit: I don't agree with everyone saying he's not interested. I believe he IS still interested. Guys (and girls) do that. When someone they like has made them angry they pretend they're mad at them and that they aren't interested anymore but in reality they are crazy about them. He is probably just playing hard to get.
2007-12-10 16:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Brittlez Skittlez 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You denied him twice? I'm surprised that he would come back after being denied once. You gave all the signs that you don't like him and he has reason to ignore you. I'm sorry but to me it seems like you did mess things up. If you just wanted to be friends you should have told him that in the first place.
2007-12-10 16:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Deveran 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him....then why turn him down? Go for it, being a jerk to him over and over may make him change his mind, unless you do not like him, then just say it would be too weird since his sis is your best friend
2007-12-10 16:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, but I also think he sounds REALLY young and not ready to be with a girl. Don't push it! Not all guys are mature enough for a relationship!
2007-12-10 16:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds to immature, move on or if you don't want to just pretend you don't care, that tends to make the person want you even more.
2007-12-10 15:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by TM25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
argh i hate this kind of stuff happened to my friend too. he's just being weird about it. if he likes you then he would've took his time too. you should tell him that you like him too so he wouldnt be like this to you , you knoe? you can flirt a little with him and like kinda give him a hint that you liek him too.
2007-12-10 16:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by wendybirdloveshervampyre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so but he sounds scared. if he is young uder 20 it sound like a typical guy with mixed messages. they all do it so get used to it now.
2007-12-10 16:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably shy or not interested, im guessing hes not interested becuase of the whole blocking thing
2007-12-10 15:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sifat A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋