My husband passed away in June due to a 4-wheeler accident. Right after it happened I felt hopeless and helpless. I loved him with all my heart. I started getting tattoos in memory of him. I used to be against tattoos until I lost him. While getting the tattoos I met the tattoo artist who I am now currently dating. I still love my husband and always will, and I wasn't looking for anyone to date this just happened. I am falling for this guy but I don't know what he thinks of me. We live two hours apart, but on the weekends we spend almost the entire weekend together. However, when I return to school during the week he only calls and talks to me maybe 5 minutes a day. He also has told me that he loves me. Does he really love me or just using me?? Does he just not like to talk on the phone??? I just can't get hurt any more. I have been through enough as it is!!!!
2007-12-10 14:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by Dragonfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm very sorry about your husband. As this tattoo guy sound like he just play game, and how could he love you right a way if he does not know you? I think he is kindly used you, but I think you should find out more about him if he is married, or anything maybe that is why he keep 5 mins talked with you on the phone, or maybe you can ask him why he cant talk longer with you on the phone?
2007-12-10 14:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may still be too soon after your husband's death and you may be seeing this guy as a link to your husband without realizing it. i would think if he loved you he could find more than 5 minutes a day to talk to you. I talk to my friends more than that. there is a site online where you can establish a memorial to him which may help you but I think you should date others as well for a while because, as I say, he might only be attractive because otherwise you feel the loss of your husband. Good Luck to you!
2007-12-10 15:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....um...I think you should probably take things a little slow. Even tho u claim to be in love with this guy, I think you just need to feel yourself out. Live life and take things slow, you just lost your husband and you don't want to jump into nothing blindsighted. Don't look for attention to quick....just slow down.
2007-12-10 14:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by MadameJazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummm a tattoo guy?? sounds like a player to me.. he calls you only for 5 minutes a day during the week?? oh, maybe casuse if his wife finds out she would kill him....
Ask him for his house number and tell him you want to see where he lives... then make sure his clothes are in the closet.. and his shoes are his size.. if he resists... then you got your answer.
2007-12-10 14:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Latin G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have an emotional hole in your life right now and need it to be filled due to your loss, I would give yourself some time to mourn your husband's passing before rushing into a relationship.
On another note....tatoo artist....come on....you can do better than that.....this would be a good time in your life to take some "me" time and work on yourself, you will be glad you did in your 30's
2007-12-10 14:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Gordito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depend how long u been dating?
2007-12-10 14:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he ust isnt a big talker??? it is possible//
2007-12-10 14:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by sandra02861 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋