We're not married, but we've been living together for about 5 years. We may not have sex as often as we did in our first year, but we still crave frequent contact with each other.
Not a day goes by that I don't tell her that I love her a dozen times or more. Often, while we are each at our individual computers, one of us will get up and walk to the other. I'll nibble on her neck. She'll snuggle me. When we're driving somewhere, we'll usually reach out to each other, holding hands or one having their hand on the other's leg. When we watch TV, it doesn't feel right unless we're snuggling.
We're still very much in love with each other.
When we sleep, our legs are usually intertwined. She likes putting my leg between hers--nothing sexual, she just likes the feeling of the contact of holding my leg between hers.
I just called her over to read this, and before she knew what she was reading, she had her arms wrapped around me.
EDIT: It's not a touch, but another of our loving rituals is that I always try to make up her coffee before I leave for work. Half coffee, half heated milk with 6 squirts of Torani sugar-free syrup. She calls it "Liquid Love."
2007-12-11 14:25:50
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answered by Donald J 4
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I hug and touch my wife in the morning before work, when we come home from work and when were out & about. During the weekend this occurs throughout the day, I noticed I'm hugging my wife a lot when she is doing things in the kitchen. I need to be close to my wife when she is saying or doing something cute that deserves affection or when she is sad or angry. I tell my wife I love her at least once a day. Typically if I start giving my wife affection in bed though its because I want sex, I'm boring I guess.
2007-12-10 13:56:56
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answered by Gordito 2
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I touch my wife without sex a lot. I like to hug her too. When we have deep interesting conversations I don't even think bout sex. The less we communicate the more I want sex. The more we talk the less I want sex.
2007-12-10 13:53:20
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answered by lifelongskinsfan 3
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i haven't had sex with my girl in almost two years. We both gained weight and she has kinky fantasies and I'm more vanilla.
I brush up against here and there and might give her like a pal hug.
I kiss her ears but more in a teasing way.
*Maybe I don't want to be too attached because I've seen cute girls at the open mic I play at and we're not married yet.
But shhh don't tell her!
Maybe I'm just unfit physcially AND MENTALLY
2007-12-10 14:09:47
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answered by Jack Bent 4
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I hug and kiss my wife throughout the day and
when she first gets up and when she goes to bed.
When I go out with her I always make sure that
I have some type of body contact with her to let
everyone know that she is mine. I always want to
be close to my wife and the only thing I want in
return is assurance that she is still the one for me
and only me. Over 20yrs marriage all the above
still applies and she is still assuring me.
2007-12-10 14:04:33
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answered by RudiA 6
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touch her a s s everytime I pass her... hug her very often... i always want sex.. I always want something.. never not want to have sex... well maybe if I was really tired.. which is rare.
love you, At least once a day
2007-12-10 13:49:54
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answered by Latin G 5
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Great question by the way...My hubby isn't here...but I can answer for him.....My hubby hugs and holds me every day....He loves being with me...just sitting on the sofa and rubbing my feet....He tells me every day....and a few times a day that he loves me....He is more affectionate than I am.....I give him affection...but he is better at it....I love him so much!!
2007-12-10 13:57:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Always touch her compliment her,kiss her,grab her bum ,cuddle on the couch every night, Men always want sex its just who we are but we also love affection just remember you have to give to get
2007-12-10 13:53:07
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answered by finally solo35 1
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Im a women but this is a great question. Def. saving it as an interesting question.
2007-12-10 13:49:03
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answered by Sarah H 2
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EVERYTIME I COME HOME OR ANY WHERE THAT MY WIFE IS I TELL HER THAT I LOVE HER ABOUT 20 OR MORE TIME IN ONE DAY
2007-12-10 14:02:34
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answered by KEITH C 1
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